broken heart

[rowie]

what the hell do I do? When does it stop hurting?

[jno]

WiccanKitten is right, your heart doesn't exactly recover, but it changes. You aren't the person you were before this happened; you've had a harsh experience and you'll have been altered by it. The best you can do is try to take control of the way you change. Ideally, think about what went wrong, if there were perhaps any warning signs you overlooked (I'm not saying there were, there often aren't), anything you could learn from it; but don't develop too hard a shell, becoming cynical or distrustful. There are good people out there who don't behave like he did - most of them, I believe.

The pain doesn't vanish overnight; it fades away, and gradually you'll find you're living through the day without thinking about it at all. So tell yourself: this is the first day of the rest of my life, I've learnt something new, I've been through a bitter experience - but I've survived, and my life is my own.

Good luck rowie.

[WiccanKitten]

GOOD FOR YOU HONEY!! well done, thats the first step on the way to things getting easier for you. good luck. xx

[little coojy]

good girl, keep strong, we've all been in your shoes at some point in our lives if we can help we will xx

[dot.hawkes]

aw bless u hun, group hug you guys.

[WiccanKitten]

**hugs**

[little coojy]

big hugs xxx

[dot.hawkes]

hi jno hun how are u?

[Redbel]

Oh if there are hugs being give out......can I have one too......HUGS....XXX

[dot.hawkes]

Awwww Bez hun sure you can, big hug from me !!!!!!

[Redbel]

Thanks Dot...needed that hun!!

[dot.hawkes]

Aww thanks hun, that was sooooooooo sweet, >>>hugs<<<<

[little coojy]

and one from me bez hug hug hug

[Redbel]

little coojy........thank you so much hun.....makes me realise that there are lovely people out there....

Bez hugs little coojy

[WiccanKitten]

Bez - a big hug from me too. Just spreading love or has it been one of those days? xx

[dot.hawkes]

bez you know there are lovely lovely people out here waiting to hug you you just have to ask hun.

[Redbel]

WiccanKitten....I've had a lovely day....picked the winner on the National... Just a beautiful day all round......I just wanted to give hugs hun.

[electricblue]

Who's gonna give me one??

[dot.hawkes]

I'll give you one blue , so will bez, won't u hun? I said you'll give blue one won't u bez?

[Redbel]

electricblue......I'll give you two......Hug Hug..... ;-)

[electricblue]

Aaaaaah thanx i REALLY needed that!!!