Guy at my gym

[angel-cake]

There is guy I like at my gym. I think I have caught his eye a couple of times but how can I get talking to him.

I use the bike, treadmill etc but he is always doing weights. I am not going embarrass myself by attempting the weights (I don't like him that much!) so what can I do?

[undercovers]

just go and talk to him, if you won't go into the weights area then talk to him at the water fountain area when he fills his bottle up... ask him to show you how to do some of the weights, he can be your spotter - if he agrees then chat away and see if you like more than just his muscles if he says no then hes not interested and leave it at that...

[*Zeus*]

Drop your gym card or something rite in front of him and bend down to pick it up...that shud do the trick

[j2buttonsw]

Are you sure he is gay? Just because he hangs around in a gym and shows off with the weights, he may be straight!

[KateMerrills]

Is there a jacuzzi there??????

[angel-cake]

j2buttonsw what??? when did i say he was gay???

[angel-cake]

yes there is kate but I'm not sure if he uses it or not.

[KateMerrills]

Ask him to join you...... I'm sure he'll use it.......It worked for me........hee hee hee!

[mrrobbo15]

.....smile...and a nod

....failing that....try the....'do i know you from my school/work/etc' line.....even if he says no....say 'well arent u (anyname) ?'....

BE BOLD !!....lifes toooooo short...and good luck

[angel-cake]

I know what you're saying mrrobbo but I'm not even sure if he has a girlfriend or not. I'll try smiling and see if that works - he's probably short-sighted knowing my luck!!!

[Froggy_Queen]

If you really want him then it matters not what you do to get his attention! If he likes you he'll be pleased you made the effort, if not, then he's not the one for you and you've lost nothing.

Smile, say hello and if he's lifting weights that much, please check he doesn't bat for the other team before you make much more effort!

[Cockney_si]

Best try to talk to him after the workout, less aggression then.
(but try to ignore the fact he maybe sweaty.....hey but that's your choice to ptry pick-up in a gym..he he)
He's gonna be a little fatigued too and easier to approach after his working out. Be sure what to say, even if it is something cheesy like... you seem pretty good at lifting those weights, how long have you been bulking up etc...

[clairey-s]

stand near the most complicated-looking weights machine (is that the techinical term) and look comfused. ask him to show you what to do!!

xXx

[dancealot13]

J2buttonsw- UUUUUhhh LOL, I was laughing so hard!! That was great, and then Angel-cake the way you responded. uuhh LOL my stomach hurts. Thanks guys that was so funny.