New bloke who I can't work out!

[happi_red]

I have recently met a guy who I have been spending time with but I CANNOT work him out. He says really nice things to me when we are together and we have a lot of fun. But then when we are apart he doesn't text or call, I'm not obsessive but one or two texts a day would be nice. And it does my brain in if I text and then spend all day waiting for a reply.

And the other night he was going for a lads night and I was out with the girls. I didn't know where he was going and he didn't know where I was going but we ended up in the same place. And he went mental and said I was a stalker. And then the next day text me and said he missed me, then ignored me all day, then asked me to go round his flat tonight.

Any ideas what is going on in this mans head cause he's driving me mad!!!!!!!

[stylinsam]

why dont you play him at his own game and then see what he says in my eyes it sound like he is sussing you out before he gets serious if you can understand that .

he probably got a bit upset bout meeting in the same place as he was on a GUYS night out and when guys have a night out on their own it has to be just guys he probably got thinking aboout it and wants to make it up to u 2nite as for the texting and phoning hes probably being a typical male iv been with my bf 3 1/2 years now and he doesnt tend to text me very often i just phone him if he doesnt phone me

its just a phase go over tonight and explain that you didnt mean to bump in to him on your night out and that it was a coincidence

[rugeleyboy]

i would tell him to f*** off!!!!!!!!!!!!

[peachy3]

he maybe abit of a player or likes 2 fink he is but from wat ya sayin he seems pretty ordinary! txtin aint really took off in sum blokes heads, sum tend 2 fink wen they away from u they r away, go round 2nite defo but 2moz be the same wen u away u away & im pretty sure he will be the 1 2 txt u!

[stylinsam]

AND THATS coming from a lad? aka rugeleyboy<>

[happi_red]

Cheers dudes. Will update ya all tomorrow. I think I will take ur advice peachy, will ignore him 2moro and see whether i get any interest off him. Hope so tho, he is actually quite nice!