big butts

[figwit]

... okay, this is going to sound stupid, because I've been told by countless people different views, but I want to hear it from people I dont know.

... are big butts unattractive?

I am not overweight, and I dont have cellulite, but I've been told I have a massive tush.
now personally I dont like it, so I'm worried that it makes me ugly, or laughable-at, or a turn-off for men.

thoughts? answers?

[spk]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so it all depends I guess. Personally I would think a rounder bum would be much more appealing than a completely flat one but thats just me ! Im a woman and I certainly prefer blokes to have a bum. And women are actually meant to have curves remember !

[kazzianne]

I have a big derriere,and though I hate it my boyfriend says that it was what attracted him to me in the first place - he was behind me filling in some forms and was dying to pinch it apparently!

[bena44]

Be happy with who you are and what you've got. Not everybody will like the way you are, but if you are at peace with it and carry yourself with confidence, then even those who disliked it, will get round to liking it. Even if they don't, who cares? Personally, I love big butts. For every 100 people who dislike it, there are 99 others who love it.

The most important thing is you liking what you've got and being confident about it.

[Pippa68]

As has been suggested, it is all down to personal taste & there are plenty of people who find big bums attractive. Variety is the spice of life..there are some who like big boobs, some who prefer small ones..some people like larger women, some love the petite type. There will always be someone for everyone!

I very much doubt that you are unattractive. There are lots of people who would love a rounder behind (me included). I wouldn't worry about it ~ as long as you are healthy & try to make the most of what you have you should be fine :o)

[SpiceBoy]

You really are kidding yourself if you think your obese, disgusting, big fat arse is attractive. It`s pretty obvious that any new relationship that starts that way is because the fellow is buttering you up for a bit of sex - although he will go off that after a short time. Failing to get a normal size girl, he turns to the likes of you as a last resort.

[teag1rl]

Not helpful spiceboy. Take no notice of this eejit figwit. be happy with who you are-girls with no shape at all are getting butt implants or buying tights with added curves!!

[Champagne]

Some men prefer curvaceous women, and some prefer stick insects. And of course some men, like SpiceBoy, need to be set upon by 30 pre-menstrual psycho women before being shot at the stake or burned at dawn (whichever is slower and more painful).

[Pippa68]

it's pretty obvious that Spiceboy's brain is in his arse. He won't need much room for it so I can only assume his arse is small...and women don't like men with no bum..therefore he is probably bitter, twisted and in dire need of a sh@@g!

[kazzianne]

Pippa - I couldnt agree more.what a total t*** he is!!

[kazzianne]

Champagne - brilliant!! Lucky for him that we dont ask if women prefer men with big ****'s!! Bet he wud sudddenly think big was best!!