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Feeling guilty...
I cheated on my boyfriend at the weekend. It was only a kiss but I feel horrible. I think it is unnecessary to tell him because it will cause more problems than it is worth...I just feel really bad.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Is it a serious relationship? I think you should own up, there would be nothing worse than it getting back to him via someone else.
At least if you tell him what happened and how you feel about it, you'd stand a chance. but if he was to hear about it from someone else, then i think he would find it harder to forgive you.
We all have images of ourelves, sometimes we see ourselves as fatter, less attractive etc. than we aremore often we see ourselves as taller, slimmer, cleverer and critically more virtuous than we are.
It hurts when we suddenly get confronted with reality and discover that we didn't live up to our self image.
Think of it as an oppurtunity to learn that we all make mistakes and the only real crime is not to learn from them
Treat him how you wish to be treated. I think the only thing you can do is see it the other way round. If he had gone out and kissed someone else... would you want him to tell you? or forget it? Honestly!
I'd have to tell if I was you. I'm to honest, not to. I think that if you dont confess then in your mind you will know you got away with it and whats to stop you doing it again? My mate did the same and cheated on her bf and felt bad the next day and decided not to tell him.. turns out some of his mates saw her and had already informed him.
Jamba99- Do NOT tell him. Things happen, you feel guilty, it won't happen again,.....
What he doesnt know can't hurt him. Don't tell him because it's no big deal.
If my boyfriend kissed another girl,( which Im sure he has at some point) and it broke his heart and he felt terribly guilty...I would still not want to know about it. So he got drunk and kissed another girl, big deal. I know he would feel like a jerk the next day and that's enough for me. But I wouldn't want to hear it from him, and I wouldn't want to know how it happened, because then I would analyze the whole kiss and it would drive me mad. A kiss is a kiss, no big deal.