why isnt he doing it for me anymore???

[kazzianne]

no sarky answers please!!

I have been with my guy almost 2 years - we still make love as often as we did in the beginning but whereas I used to climax every time,now I dont at all.i still love him as much,and fancy him as much,but nothing happens for me.He doesnt have a clue,I have started to pretend,but he isnt doing anything different to when I met him,so why cant i climax??

[nattab]

try talking to him, just have a romantic night in and talk about things he would like you to do and the other way around. tell him what u want and spend more time on foreplay. hope it works out for you.

[kazzianne]

he is doing everythig that i would normally adore,but for some reason,it isnt working for me.I havent a clue why - he isnt doing a thing different.

[dot.hawkes]

What are you thinking about whilst he is 'not doing anything different'? Are you thinking about the washing, the job, the bills, or, 'i wish he would do something different'?

[nattab]

just try something new, or buy some toys and play with them on your own and you will get a better idea of what you want from him,

[Metz]

From the answers i recieved about sex toys...get a rabbit :o)

[nattab]

rabbits are the best.

[dot.hawkes]

what metz said yes

[kazzianne]

i tried that tonight - we had a bottle of wine etc,I dressed up,he went wild,I still fancy his body like mad,but whilst he had the time of his life and an amazing orgasm,i had nothing!! he truly isnt doing a thing different so whats the hell wrong with me!!??

[nattab]

there is nothing wrong with you, as i said, u have to find what does it for you before you can tell him what you want. i would definately invest in some toys

[kazzianne]

we have loads of toys!! but for some wierd reason,what used to give me a massive thrill does nothing now!! i still fancy him to bits so i am baffled!!

[curiosity]

After a night of passion you're on answerbank at quarter past eleven, perhaps you didn't fully commit your mind to this??

[nattab]

just spend time with the toys alone, you'll soon find 'your pleasure centre' :)

[Agent_Smith]

next time your giving him oral slide your finger up his bum!!

[whiskeysheri]

Maybe you're more stressed than usual, kazzi? Loads of stuff you're thinking about sub-consciously so you can't relax properly? xxx

[kazzianne]

i wanted serious answers ,not sarcasm!! I have been in bed with my guy since 5pm and am shattered!! He has finally fallen asleep,which is why I have come on here now for possible answers as to why i cant climax lately.

[Metz]

Have you tried some of the Ann Summers range of licks and body drizzles? Ice cubes are good too :o)

[Agent_Smith]

i was being seriouse!!.................. if you give him a boost ,you never know where its gonna go!!

dont knock it before you try it!!

[kazzianne]

I can turn him on in 5 seconds!! But it just isnt working back!! he isnt doing a thing different but it isnt getting the usual reactions.xx

[Agent_Smith]

then you need to press the boost button!!

my ex also held things back from me!! and when i was a good agent she would oblige!! it gave us both a boost!!

[Redbel]

Try watching a porno film together.