argh!!!

[Zammo]

This is a long one. I met this guy 5 months ago who had just finished with his g/f who he shared a house with. We started having a casual relationship and things were fine until I started to have feelings for him, which is sooo not like me, I usually go off guys after a couple of weeks. I thought the best thing to do was try and delete his number and try and move on because I have a horrible feeling he's going to get back with his X because he stills sees her sometimes but everytime I threaten to delete his number he changes my mind. There is so much more to this situation....just feel so crap about the whole thing and really don't know what to do.

[SCHUMI]

your an intellegent woman and your instincts are telling you to beware and i agree with them.he may be very nice but trust me i'm sensing a having cake and eat it kind o guy.the reality is if he wants to be with you then he wouldn't be mucking about with his ex and your too nice to be 2nd choice.i say your nice cos a lot of women would not be bothered about the other woman and you wouldn't be posting this query so leave him and find someone for yourself.

[spk]

very good answer from Schumi. Go for a nice clean slate and a man that can give you 100%. Why should you have to share there are plenty of men still available out there. One womans trash is another womans treasure you know ! good luck x

[maxximus]

never ignore the spidey sense