Ex Girlfriend 2

[jaredwillias]

Hi I posted yesterday, i text my recent ex this morning asking if she was seeing anybody, she told me she was seeing her ex, who when younger forced her to have an abortion and also cheated on her....

Anyway she now says shes back with him a couple of weeks after we have split up, and is bragging about his penis and how good he is in bed

She has REALLY REALLY hurt me, as thru our relationship she said she hated lads like him and now shes back with him!!!!

She isnt lying either, because I emailed him and then she knew str8 away that i had been intouch, so she is obviously seeing him.

I know its not my problem anymore and also that i should forget her (been told this loads) but it doesnt make it any easier especially since she is moving on with her life and i am left thinking WHAT DO I DO NOW WHERE DO I GO FROM HERE?

[Ward-Minter]

I guess you are quite a young guy and this was your first love.

There are no easy answers, you just have to move on. The more you let it worry you the more it will comsume your every thought.

The old and very cliched saying "there are plenty more fish in the sea" is so irritating but sooooo true. Just sit back, let her get on with her life, cry a bit, feel sad, but soon, and I guarantee one day, you will laugh at your now emotions.

Whatever you do, do not contact her. Do not walk past areas she may be in the faint hope she will see you. If she wants you back she will contact you and sadly she doesn't. It's not easy but c'est le vie.

[Rubyrose]

Ok this is one of the hardest feelings in the world and nothing anyone says to you now will make you feel better but you have to know... it will get better. Trust me. Do you want her back? If so.. do you really want her back or is this a classic case of 'wanting what you can't have'? It happens alot and you can't see it because you are dealing with the rejection. You feel rejected that she doesn't want you. But you have to realise.. whether she wants you or not.. this is her grieving process. She has gone back to an ex who she hated! Thats how much she is on a rebound. She wouldn't look at him twice in the normal world as you have reset her standards and she knows there is better guys out there than him but she is rebounding and when people rebound they go for anyone who takes their mind of their pain. People they wouldn't look at if they were thinking clearly but she isn't and she is using him to cover up her pain from not being with you. Let her get on with it and the more you leave her alone, the more attractive you will become to her. Don't tell her what you are doing or what you are up to coz the mystery is far for exciting. If she knows where you are and who you are with then she won't be wondering where you are.. and the wondering will be worse for her coz her imagination will go wild! 70% of rebound relationships don't work out! Give them enough rope to hang themselves.... basically enough time and space to f*ck it up on their own. Nobody knows whats just around the corner and sometimes its better that we don't.

xx

[Octavius]

Are you sure you are not jibjab? So what if she is dating someone else? You are not together so it really is none of your concern. She has moved on and is probably saying these things to hurt you and hope that maybe you will stop bothering her.

Give up the ghost, stop living in the past and move on, delete her number and stop texting her � even if she sends a text to you, just delete it.

[Kay]

Have to agree with Octavius on this one. Delete her number and move on.

[Jaf]

Do you have any naked pictures of her, you could put them on the web.

[purpose]

Ignore that last comment. Do NOT put naked pics of her on the web. That really is not helpful.

I agree with the others - DELETE her number and any other reminders you have of her.

Be dignified. Think about what you would tell your best friend in this situation and take your own advice.

It's not easy, but walking away and attempting to forget is all you can do, otherwise you will end up hurting yourself, and by the sounds of it, she has already had a damn good go at that.

[jno]

she is not moving on with her life, she has moved sharply backward to what sounds like a pretty exploitative and disastrous relationship; my guess is she's suffering a lot more than you. Truly happy people don't try to make other people unhappy. Leave her to it.