Different sex drives

[hammerman]

What are peoples opinions if you have been in a very happy relationship with your husband, wife, partner or whoever for a few years and suddenly you seem to want sex a lot more than your other 'arf.

Say for example you need sex twice a week....even once a week and you're climbing the walls if you can't get it but your partner only needs sex once every other month.

You still love each other to bits and everything else is as strong as ever....except the sex.

Discuss

[= n e o =]

I dont like driving whilst having sex.

I tend to crash.

[= n e o =]

fcuk off you dick, hammerman

You are a complete to44er which is why you are banned so much.

Why dont you kill yourself and do us all a favour

[= n e o =]

hammerman, I will rip your head off and sh1t down your fcuking neck if you dont fcuk off from this site right now

[~posy-jo~]

is there no way you could come to an agreement say once every three weeks or so, or compromise some other way? although if it seems pre planned it might take the fun out of it. i'm not helping sorry so i'll give up and let someone else advise you. hope it all works out ok xXx

[= n e o =]

im sorry posy

hammerman started it as usual

I only made a joke

[= n e o =]

Anyway hammerman

its not supprising your wife dont want sex with you

because you are a to$$er

[kazzianne]

I think the couple would need to sit down and discuss what has changed.Why one of you suddenly not need sex very often? Is there as medical reason? Are they under a lot of stress? Could they compromise to start wirh and have lots of kissing and cuddling with no pressure to carry on to full intercourse,and they might find that leads onto full sex as there are no expectations.If it is a very close relationship then you should be able to sit down and have an honest talk.

[Jennykins]

Honestly hammerman, from a women that loves to make love with my husband.. Maybe your not giving her what she needs.. so she just trys to do it as least as posible because she is just not interested. Now Im just guessing so dont go and get all harsh back to me ok .. The problem with many men and sex is there to busy thinking about them selve's having an orgasim and leaving the woman board... Men have to take the women and stimulate every part of her.. then you will see her react in a wild way and showing much more interest back... I dont know .. thats just how I feel ... Its just a thought...

[Polotoo]

Hammerman, ignore the idiots on here.

Sorry to hear of your problems, I am also experiencing something similar. My husbands always had a low sex drive in comparison to me. Its taken me a while to realise its not me, he's not with anyone else, he just doesn't have the same needs as me.

I find it frustrating, but short of trying to force him, what can I do! I think you just have to accept that sometimes people are not in tune sexually, have you discussed it with her?

The only thing I can say is that, it makes it all the more special when it happens..........

[hammerman]

Thanks for the sensible answers

Just for the record....it's not me who's having problems