Strands #248 “Strumming Right...
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.You work, but he does not.
You tidy up, but he does not.
Can you tell me why you are even with him !
Sounds to me as though he is just lazy, and taking advantage of you. Maybe his mother let him get away with doing nothing.
Stop tidying up.
Stop cooking meals for him, either just cook for yourself or eat out on your own or with friends.
Stop any sexual activity.
If he cannot be bothered with the ralationship then make it clear you are not bothered either.
He either changes his way or you end the relationship.
Lol, great answers rubyrose! ;o)
vehelpfulguy - are you confusing me with tigerthecat?
My bloke does work. Tidying the house i think is a separate issue from the relationship. There wouldn't be any couples living together if it wasn't! ;o) I wouldn't give up a great guy over an untidy house, i just need to train him to be a bit more helpful! Im sure he will as he gets older! Must be because his mum always did everything for him, whereas mine made me to do things for myself once i was 16.
Going on strike doesn't work, the house just gets dirtier and messier and i can't live like that so end up sorting it out! I think rewards must be the only way...