Cheated

[laurence2]

Which Ab's have cheated on their partners before?

Sorry if this line of questioning has popped up before.

For the record, i,ve never ever cheated on anyone

[Mr Harris]

My wife has cheated on me. Not the other way round.

[Rubyrose]

I have never physically cheated on a partner....!

I guess I have thought about it and wished I could but I never cheated. Been cheated on.. I think.. never got to the bottom of it!

I am crap at answering Q's.. Lol. I didn't give a proper answer.

[silverdaler]

you must love her a lot then Mr H ! How very forgiving of you !

[Redbel]

Mr Harris.....once a cheater always a cheater.....get rid !

[laurence2]

Rubyrose, why would you WISH to cheat, is it revenge even tho your not 100% sure?

[silverdaler]

not necessarily bez - some people learn by their mistakes and perhaps it has made their relationship stronger !

[laurence2]

silverdaler, i,m of the mentality ''One strike and your out''

I agree with BEZ

[silverdaler]

it wouldnt do for us all to think the same would it L ? at least people know where they stand with you i suppose.

:)

[laurence2]

I'm just loyal full stop, i,m not a jealous person, if you want to sleep around, stay single or split up before you do anything, theirs no need to hurt others?

[johnlambert]

Yep, its not big and it's not clever but I've cheated on girlfriends in the past, but I'd never do it now

[justineo]

I have only cheated in my head, does that count

[laurence2]

justineo, only if its more than 1000 times

[wonderwoman1]

i have never ever cheated on anyone but i have been cheated on a few times. i have got used to accepting thats what happens in relationships. i think if i met someone who didnt cheat i would constantly think he was cheating. i cant win!!

[silverdaler]

But were you any good Justineau ?

[Rubyrose]

No. I think I said it wrong.. there was maybe one or 2 occasions in my 5yr relationship with my ex where I wanted to cheat.. not so much wanted to cheat but wanted someone else. But both times I resisted and the first time I told my ex how I felt and we got through it together. The second time I never told him.. coz he always threw the first time back in my face even though I didn't do anything. I just wanted to!

[silverdaler]

#justineo - sorry !

[laurence2]

Wonderwoman, are you being cheated on at the moment?

You should'nt except it?

[Rubyrose]

I understand what you mean Wonderwoman. I was never the most trusting person anyway when it came to relationships but not after having my heart trampled on I doubt I will ever trust a guy again. I will worry he is cheating even if he isn't. It will ultimately ruin the relationship anyway and more than likely make him cheat! So many damamged souls!

[wonderwoman1]

no i am now single cos the last *** **** cheated!! couldnt take much more of it. i just find it easier to accept it that face it head on!! sounds stupid i know but its how i deal with it. you get to the stage where you think you are the one in the wrong and its your fault and in one relationship thats exactly how i was made to feel.

[wonderwoman1]

exactly ruby..and its annoying because i am sure there are so many trust worthy guys out there but because we have been hurt before, we cant give them a chance!!