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Should i go ahead and book a holiday with my girlfriends even though my boyfriend doesnt want me to go. I really want to go, also shes paying as its my birthday prezzie. Would anyone else go if they had a boyfriend??
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I went on holiday with my best friend last summer and it really wasn't a problem with my boyfriend, 'cause he knew I would never even think about cheating on him, drunk or not. Maybe he's scared he'll lose you? Has he had problems in the past with exes cheating on him?
Sorry if this comes across all armchair psychologist... Hope it helps a bit!
I had planned a big girly holiday one summer a year before I met my boyfriend. He seemed ok until just before we were going to go and then he flipped. He said it wasn't that he didn't trust me or want me to have a good time, it was other guys and the girls I was going with that he didn't trust. I almost didn't go on the holiday, becuase I felt weird going without him, but I went in the end. I missed him like crazy and had a pants time (becuase of the people I went with) and was worried that when I got back he wouldn't be around anymore because he was worried about what would happen while I was away.
As it was, when I came back we were all good and still together 4 years later, but now we would never book a holiday away from each other!!
I think this is a difficult one seeing as you cheated on him last time you went on holiday with this mate of yours, so you can see why he is nervous of you going away in the same circumstances again. I think you should compromise and go with your mate and your boyfriend (also one of his friends) and have a good time with them all, it will take time for him to learn to trust you again but as you were in the wrong you should try to help him by offering this compromise deal.
good luck
If my gf went on holiday and cheated on me then I certainly would be against her going on the same trip with the same person, and that would really depend on me forgiving her in the 1st place. If she went away again, I doubt I would be there when she got back.
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