Dreams

[pinkiefriend]

Last night I had a dream that my boyfriend had met someone else or is having an affair. This is not the first or even second time I have had a dream like this, i've had a couple of them now. My dreams are really vivid. The other person is usually someone I know but someone he know's better than me. I dont think he has dreams like this involving me and i'm finding it quite strange. Am I really this paranoid?

[salisbury]

ur situation might be totally different, but i had a wierd situation recently where my two ex flatmates and very close friends (they are a couple and have been together 5 years)......they recently spit and she thinks they will definitely get back together whilst hes out meeting new girls and getting on with his life, anyway he has been sleeeping with a girl he recently met and his girl of 5 years is none the wier,

THE FREAKY PART......she emailed me the other day telling me shed had a dream that he tol her that teir mini break was for good and that hed met a new girl and was seeing her from now on.

So I dont want to get you worried as its probably a totally different case, it just weird you posted that a few days after ive had mates going through the same thing x

[laurence2]

But what if it comes reality, will you still be paranoid?

Are you questioning your relationship now?

[whiskeysheri]

I seriously wouldn't worry, pinkie, hun! I have phases where I have these dreams a LOT! It's usually with one of my friends or someone I work with, but I don't think it means anything.

I wouldn't take it as a sign anyway, I'd presume it to maybe represent something else in your subconscience. xxx

[Champagne]

You should only worry if you always have dreams that come true. But I'm guessing you don't, so you've nothing to worry about. ;o)

[Pippa68]

I have these dreams too! I tend to wake up quite upset about it :o(

In my dreams I am having a go at Mr Pippa for shagging around and he shrugs his shoulders and says ''so what?'' I usually tell him about it the next day and he finds it quite amusing that he is like that in my dream (he isn't in 'real' life!) however he does get concerned when I get upset about it...it's only a dream ;o)

They are probably basic insecurity dreams..rather like the ones where you find out you aren't wearing any knickers and the wind gets up your skirt..or flying around naked..I dunno, I can't work it all out!

[whiskeysheri]

They also don't appreciate half-asleep middle-of-the-night, phone calls to ask 'em, 'what the hell they're playing at?!' .... *ahem!* :o) x

[Pippa68]

awwww WS ~ LOL!

I did wake Mr Pippa up one morning with the immortal ''You Ba$tard!!!'' although he thought it was because he had trumped ;o)

[unruliejulie]

I've had these sort of dreams loads and i always wake up feeling angry at my Hubby, bless him. I once punced my Ex-husband and swore at him as i just woke up because it seemed so real.(with my best friend as well) Fortunately he was a very heavy sleeper and it didn't even disturb him! it took me a little while to calm down and realise it wasn't true. A weird feeling!

[Hellion]

Hi Pinkiefriend usually dreams are indicators of underlying worries but not necessarily worries relating to the dream you've had. What I mean is that you are possibly feeling vulnerable, anxious or unconfident in another area of your life eg work or studies and your mind is working it though in a more 'manageable' way, it can be a way of working through anger too. I once dreamt I blew up the building I worked in it was completely vivid and everyone died, I didn't actually want to kill people really BUT I was VERY unhappy in the job that I was doing at the time - I soon left that job and my dreams became much sweeter.
What I'm saying is, you're not having these dreams BECAUSE your bf is having an affair but because YOU are worried that he might.
ps Excuse all the capitals I'm not shouting just can't underline things anymore.!