Attempted Robbery In Cape Town
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Morning everyone!
Thanks for all your replys! after i left work last night i thought for a long while about what i would say, i phoned him up and said we werent right for each other, that i thought he was still in love with his ex and he should run off to a desert island with her, (which he guessed what i'd done) then tried to say i was wrong and had i ever thought maybe he didnt want a commited relationship with me...? er no! so he's dumped!
In response to your questions
i checked because i was suspicious and with good reason it seems! i never normally!
and PinkFizz his password is very secret, i'm just a very good PI!!! ;o)
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Thanks for all your replys! after i left work last night i thought for a long while about what i would say, i phoned him up and said we werent right for each other, that i thought he was still in love with his ex and he should run off to a desert island with her, (which he guessed what i'd done) then tried to say i was wrong and had i ever thought maybe he didnt want a commited relationship with me...? er no! so he's dumped!
In response to your questions
i checked because i was suspicious and with good reason it seems! i never normally!
and PinkFizz his password is very secret, i'm just a very good PI!!! ;o)
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Well done caz!
You know in your heart you have done the right thing ~ I am so glad this happened now and not further down the line. It would have been awful to have invested yet more time into the relationship when he doesn't actually want one...
I pity the next one he gets with..they will have to deal with the same thing as he is obviously one big player.
Take care of yourself ~ you will find yourself someone more deserving of you..or rather they will find you :o) xx
You know in your heart you have done the right thing ~ I am so glad this happened now and not further down the line. It would have been awful to have invested yet more time into the relationship when he doesn't actually want one...
I pity the next one he gets with..they will have to deal with the same thing as he is obviously one big player.
Take care of yourself ~ you will find yourself someone more deserving of you..or rather they will find you :o) xx
Caz, re your comment about contacting her, to be honest i would do (and did) exactly the same. There was no benefit in it for me but the things to think about are firstly, why should the little creep get off scott free. And secondly, no matter how much we try to deny it, revenge IS sweet!
The thing to emphasise if you are going to do this, is that you have to be quite honest in order to seem sain. I started with
"dear PERSON, I don't know if you know who I am but I am NAME's ex, who I have just dumped having seen his recent correspondences with you. I read his email, which was wrong of my but I had my suspicions which, it turns outwere absolutely spot on. So, I wanted to tell you that he has told me he cheated on you blah blah etc etch"
And ended with "I know you have absolutely no reason to trust what I am telling you and, as you can probably guess, I am telling you this to get back at him because he has been an ar*ehole to me but please remember that I have no intention of going anywhere near the lying sh*t again, so have no interest in trying to split you up (if indeed, you are actually together) - I just wanted to make sure you were aware of, what I am told to be, the facts of the situation and could make as informed a choice as possible".
In my case, she didn't listen to me - he cheated on her 6 months later. Then she left him (and wrote the same emal to the person he was cheating with in her case). And she's now a very good mate of mine.
So it all worked out well in the end!
The thing to emphasise if you are going to do this, is that you have to be quite honest in order to seem sain. I started with
"dear PERSON, I don't know if you know who I am but I am NAME's ex, who I have just dumped having seen his recent correspondences with you. I read his email, which was wrong of my but I had my suspicions which, it turns outwere absolutely spot on. So, I wanted to tell you that he has told me he cheated on you blah blah etc etch"
And ended with "I know you have absolutely no reason to trust what I am telling you and, as you can probably guess, I am telling you this to get back at him because he has been an ar*ehole to me but please remember that I have no intention of going anywhere near the lying sh*t again, so have no interest in trying to split you up (if indeed, you are actually together) - I just wanted to make sure you were aware of, what I am told to be, the facts of the situation and could make as informed a choice as possible".
In my case, she didn't listen to me - he cheated on her 6 months later. Then she left him (and wrote the same emal to the person he was cheating with in her case). And she's now a very good mate of mine.
So it all worked out well in the end!
Would you guess at the email address? [email protected] for example or is that psychoish?
I could put a disclaimer at the bottom apologising if its the wrong person!
I could put a disclaimer at the bottom apologising if its the wrong person!
I've tried a few already but i'm not sure how many attempts you get til it kicks you off!
I've drafted that letter using the email address format above, it could be but if its not i doubt i'd get a response so would never know!
Plus i want my flight money etc back first!!
I have an idea where she works though i could find out for definite and write her instead!?
I've drafted that letter using the email address format above, it could be but if its not i doubt i'd get a response so would never know!
Plus i want my flight money etc back first!!
I have an idea where she works though i could find out for definite and write her instead!?
Ring up the co and say that you've got an email to send NAME, but haven't got her address. The receptionist should give it out no probs.
If she doesn't have email, then you could write to her in the post. Although I'd add something to your letter saying that you know that you've gone to a lot of effort to get in touch with her and don't intend to ever contact her again, but you couldn't bear it if she didn't know the truth about him. or something.
If she doesn't have email, then you could write to her in the post. Although I'd add something to your letter saying that you know that you've gone to a lot of effort to get in touch with her and don't intend to ever contact her again, but you couldn't bear it if she didn't know the truth about him. or something.
