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I introduced my best girlfriend to this guy (Steve) that has been a close friend of my family. They never really ended up dating, but they did fool around a tad. She didn't want to date him because she wasn't interested in him that way...He wasn't really either. She began dating another guy frequently.
My boyfriend and I broke up so Steve started taking me out to help me get my mind of things. One thing led to another and we started this 'friends with benefits' relationship. I told my girlfriend that I've been kissin' him when we drink, and she said she doesn't care at all.
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Last week Steve saw her out and she was drunk....she tried kissing him. (that's how she is when she drinks..no big deal)
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This weekend she is having a big party and all three of us are going to be there. I love my friend more then life itself and I don't want anything weird to happen, and I don't want anyone to get hurt. That means I should stay away and cool it for the weekend with him? I think I just answered my own question. Any advice is much appreciated.
My boyfriend and I broke up so Steve started taking me out to help me get my mind of things. One thing led to another and we started this 'friends with benefits' relationship. I told my girlfriend that I've been kissin' him when we drink, and she said she doesn't care at all.
BUT
Last week Steve saw her out and she was drunk....she tried kissing him. (that's how she is when she drinks..no big deal)
BUT
This weekend she is having a big party and all three of us are going to be there. I love my friend more then life itself and I don't want anything weird to happen, and I don't want anyone to get hurt. That means I should stay away and cool it for the weekend with him? I think I just answered my own question. Any advice is much appreciated.
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whoa whoa whoa, your best friend is having a party and your not going to be there?
first shes your bessy mate you have to be there first so she doesnt look like a saddo at the start of the night
and second your leaving them both alone!! you do know that something might happen with you not there you have to be cool with that as well!!
first shes your bessy mate you have to be there first so she doesnt look like a saddo at the start of the night
and second your leaving them both alone!! you do know that something might happen with you not there you have to be cool with that as well!!
Hey Sherman ;)
No no, Im gonna go to the party. My friend would kill me if I didn't go. And your right she is definetly NO saddo. I also don't care if she tries kissing him because I am honestly only interested in him as a fling and he knows it. I just don't want things to get complicated for us (the three of us). So I think Im just going to back off Steve this weekend, and focus on my best friend and the party. It's not worth a complication just for a fling.
I guess the concern is what if I get drunk and pull him into the woods for a kiss and she sees,......Now that's what I don't want to happen, because she may get weirded out by that. Maybe I should just ask her?
No no, Im gonna go to the party. My friend would kill me if I didn't go. And your right she is definetly NO saddo. I also don't care if she tries kissing him because I am honestly only interested in him as a fling and he knows it. I just don't want things to get complicated for us (the three of us). So I think Im just going to back off Steve this weekend, and focus on my best friend and the party. It's not worth a complication just for a fling.
I guess the concern is what if I get drunk and pull him into the woods for a kiss and she sees,......Now that's what I don't want to happen, because she may get weirded out by that. Maybe I should just ask her?
ooh ooh ive got it get steve to invite his best mate then introducehim to you mate- now bear with me here then she can date him, and then go off him then you can have him on the rebound and then like totally share with you mate, you can both have steve and his mate at the next party
god damn i impress myself sometimes!
god damn i impress myself sometimes!
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im very intelligent and I would love to but I get a very big head when I get a good idea and someone else agrees with me and it would kinda be like
"ok steve and mate i know you were here at the start and this whole thing is your fault but im here now so i think i should really take over looking after the ladies so why dont you and mate go away and leave me to service dancealot and mate"
which would be unfair to them so unfortunately i would have to decline!
p.s this actually would happen!
"ok steve and mate i know you were here at the start and this whole thing is your fault but im here now so i think i should really take over looking after the ladies so why dont you and mate go away and leave me to service dancealot and mate"
which would be unfair to them so unfortunately i would have to decline!
p.s this actually would happen!
