Isn't it annoying when......

[PinkFizz]

Isn't it annoying when b/f calls from work,sounds odd,I ask if anything is wrong,he says yes,then when I ask what he says he can't tell me over the phone as it would take too long........aaagggghhhhhhh!!!!!!

[Chappers]

Sometimes we (men) need to inform our loved one that something is wrong. Talking about it later is fine but at that precise moment you just need to tell someone that somethings wrong. Strange I know but that's how men work. It's a bit like women getting in a huff with you but they won't tell you why!

Are you concerned about what's wrong? Is that a bigger factor than him simply not telling you over the phone?

[ELVIS68]

Wouldn`t know, he`s never called me from work

Sounds dodgy though

[PinkFizz]

yes chappers - I am concerned!! Thats why im sitting here worrying now,but I didn't press him on the phone as I knew he wouldn't have told me anyway.

[Lore]

Just be there for him when he gets home, I know it's not easy waiting and wondering what's wrong but maybe it's something to do with his work and he can't talk about it just now due to flapping ears!

[PinkFizz]

Thnks Lore.Gona be a long 4 hours !

[4getmenot]

But if you'd sensed something was up and asked him and he said no coz he wanted tell you later you'd be annoyed that you knew something was wrong but he told you he was fine. He probably just hasnt the time or someone is listening in but as chappers said he needed to tell you. :-)

[ugly_bob]

or...
he's just building up to tell you he's gonna be late cos he's gotta go sort something out (go for a pint or three)

[Lore]

we're just going to have to keep you entertained on here till then PF.

The guy who lives next door to me enjoys keep fit activities all day and night, He runs on his treadmill which is positioned in front of his sitting room window for all to see and when it gets dark, he switches the light on and leaves the curtains open.... I'm sure he wears pink spandex!

[PinkFizz]

you lot are mad - thats why I love you all!!

Maybe he wants to tell me he's really a woman called Shirley!!

[Lore]

I forgot to mention.... I live next door to Elvis!!

[Champagne]

God I hate it when men do that! I guarantee it�ll be something really minor and you�ll be spending all afternoon letting your imagination work wonders! If you�re anything like me you�ll be expecting the worst, along the lines of, �I�ve been having an affair with a woman at work for the past 3 months and I�ve decided I love her so you�re dumped. Now get out of my house.� And instead he�ll say something like, �Dave and I were gonna watch the footie on Saturday but now his wife says he has to go shopping with her, so we�ve had to cancel it.�

Bluddy bu99ers!

[ugly_bob]

obviously, champs, the second scenario is more important.

[ugly_bob]

And Dave should be thinking of a divorce if he has to go shopping instead of watching the footie

[mccfluff]

lol champers i was just about to say pretty much the same, my ex used to do this to me, call me up tell me there's a problem but he can't talk now, i'd then go off thinking up all sorts of weird and wonderful stuff and it would turn out to be instead of going out for a meal as planned he'd double booked and wanted to go out with the lads instead or something along those lines.

try not to worry to much take care xx

[PinkFizz]

he's just txt to say he will be home early.Hmmmmm......

[Champagne]

I'm dying to know now too!! You'll have to let us know tomorrow.

[PinkFizz]

Annoying thing is that he knows I can't ask him till my boy goes to bed as we wouldn't be able to talk,and so I'm not gona know till gone 7.30!!

[Lore]

Right, meet you all back here 7:45

PF you've got us all wondering now!

[PinkFizz]

lol.I will def post on here what it was!!

He never says anythings the matter - thats whats worrying me.Ohhhhh,hurry up next 2 hours!!

[mimififi]

mr fifi does this and so now I ask twenty questions to which he can answer yes or no to.

I also hate it when he rings me and I'm really busy with the children and he says "what's up with you?" and I say "I'm just busy" and he says "oh" and then whittles on for another 15 minutes then all of a sudden says; "Anyway, I haven't got time to talk to you now, I'm really busy." and then just goes and i always end up thinking: "YOU PHONED ME!"

shish! men. Different species altogether.