Sex - Why do men always get to finish?

[nat_84]

Ok having a discussion with my mates in wetherspoons yesterday (4 girls).

Started talking about sex and basically my mate had just come back from holiday with her man, and they were going through a bad spell at the time. 3 days into the holiday they finally had sex and he finished off and just sort of pressumed session was over, to say my mate was ****** off would be an understatement.

My boyfriend does it too and im sure a lot of other men do.

Anyway, dont you think men should always insure a woman is totally satisfied at the end of sex and not pressume fun's over becasue they've been satisfied?! Ur men like this? Or are u like this?

Can u imagine if a woman stopped half way during sex with a man and just got up and said "i'm done" - gosh, the chaos that would follow!!

[originalspa]

Great question nat_84! I'll certainly be following this thread but I'm gay so me and my partner always make sure we're both satisfied before waliking off otherwise there could be trouble!! Alot of trouble!

[Rufio]

I always make sure the lady's satisfied - i have a reputation to uphold you know!

[redcrx]

ive been known to finish before my bf and then give up lol

[jiggy-gb]

As you get older you get craftier, or maybe just wiser. Don't let them even start until they've made you happy, problem solved!

[yesmadam]

yeah right!!! if he thinks I've finished he's got another think coming. He gets to go once, as a warm up and then the real stuff starts. They keep going then.

[raysparx]

Where are you nat? i'm on my way, I never leave mrs sparx till she screams and dribbles !!!!

[noxlumos]

She's with the wrong man. I couldn't apart from anything else for my own ego allow a woman to be disapppinted, God that'd be terrible, the man has no self respect..

[laurence2]

nat_84, Why do women put up with men like this?

surely they should be talking to their partners etc about the subject in hand, its like these women are being used just to satisfy their men then pushed to one side, my advice, if you can't satisfy your partners/wifes etc fellas, don't get into something unless your going to finished the job

[nat_84]

lol ray.
From my personal sexual encounters ive experienced men just finishing off and leaving me!!

How rude.i know.

Anyway, it seems that the main objective of sex is to make the man satisfied a lot of the time.

[PinkFizz]

God,my b/f would never do that!!Admittedly I don't always have an o***sm but he still wouldn't dream of stopping as soon as he was satisfied.He always waits till im happy.

[Rufio]

NO NO NO!! The main objective for any man should be to satisfy the women! Always the women!

[nat_84]

laurence2...

my fellas pretty good at satisfying me and he's not selfish. But there are times when he hasnt finished the job - which i think just develops in a relationship.

For example, at the beginning they're keen to impress but after a year.. its more just like routine....

[ugly_bob]

lol. happened to me once. girl finished, rolled over and fell asleep (have to admit I was a bit drunk, so wasn't exactly being Linford Christie about it). I was flabergasted.
So, ****** on her back, got up and left.
Surprisingly, I never saw her again. lol

[joko]

basically those type of blokes are simply crap in bed - they may have a big knob and loads of energy but thats not enough
I have met a few that think thats all it takes

it also clearly shows that they are not interested in you and your happiness

come on guys get your act together

[froggo]

the lady has to get what she wants or it dosnt count as a proper session it would be like having a bathwith your socks on

[redcrx]

W~M the reasons for a female orgasm......... well apart from the fact the its there to help sperm pass the cervix surely it results in an easier life for you guys??

Of course a rabbit is a lot less hassle :)

[whiffey]

W~M, the female orgasm serves the same purpose as the male - it makes the whole smutty business so pleasurable that the species wants to do it over and over again, sometimes as soon as 20 minutes after the previous time.

I'm pretty much with you on the rest of it though :)

[froggo]

has any one found a rabbit my wife lost hers so i had to get a new one (bit worrying)

[raysparx]

A Rabbit? Won't the fur get matted? give it a gumshield or it might nibble you clit !!!!!