I posted the above question some time ago and last Saturday I had the hen night where I was to see my enemy. I hadn't seen her for well over a year and people were telling me she had lost so much weight and was now a size 8 which isn't really what you want to hear. But when I saw her I'd rather be the size I am, she looked ill and had the blackest circles round her eyes, she wasn't drinking because she was driving but she was definitely on something and tripping her t*ts off either that or desperate for another fix. So really just an update to say thanks for all your advice back then but after seeing what a loser she is now the wedding is gonna be a doddle. :-)
If she's that uncomfortable with herself that she needs to prove something,whatever it is,starving or drugging herself up,then swagger your way in gal and work it,!!!lol
i bet she thinks she's really good looking too. i love it when that happens and they turn out to be ugly old trolls.
You are far better than she is hun, enjoy yourself at the wedding knowing that xx
The only thing that annoyed me was some people were like 'wow look at you, you've lost so much weight' while my mate sat next to me cursing her because she's on weight watchers.
4getmenot - she sounds as though she looks bloody awful,and I bet you look ten times better!
I haven't a clue what size you are,but after me personally spending over a year worrying about my weight I decided very recently "sod it" and I feel ,fantastic.
This girl sounds as though she is very unhappy,and that is all the come-uppance you need hun!
Pink, 4getmenot is slim, way smaller than the average UK size. That other one does sound very unhealthy to me. I cant see how any true friends of hers would comment on how great she looks when its obvious its been caused by means other than healthy eating.