PinkFizz

[kick3m0n]

babes, you OK? there's a fair few folk wanting to know how you're doing today. Hope all is well. big hugs xxxx

[kick3m0n]

his mum is just trying to protect her son. she's delluded of course, and ignoring the harm his behaviour could do to her own grandson, but she's just being a mum. Don't let her suck you into the emotional blackmail pit. if she goes mental, grand, let her go...it's her sons fault, no one elses, and he needs to take responsibility for his actions, as he's clearly learned nothing from the past Pink. You take care of yourself and your wee guy sweetie, chin up etc etc. I'm just so glad you're OK, as time passed, I began to worry... xxxx

[PinkFizz]

Because he works at Police HQ Bob ,and I dont think that would help his job!!

[bobtheturkey]

safety more important than a job

[kick3m0n]

but Bob, if bf is locked up for assault - how can he then keep PF and son safe?

[bobtheturkey]

you be more subtle and clever than that kick :)

[kick3m0n]

I don't even want to know.................... xx

[bobtheturkey]

faffing around idiots like this just mean they get a kick out of it ( pardon the pun) it drags on and on for ever with letters solicitors and all the rest, wheras a breeze blocking tidies it all up nicely :)

[PinkFizz]

lol Bob - I like ur style - I was thinking of hiring a hitman!!

No redcrx - I didnt get to go to that place in the end - he changed it to somewhere just outside town.

[kick3m0n]

lmao Bob, not conforming to a stereotype at all there babes, are you? I mean, you do have a very valid point, it's just not how I'd do things. Off out into the sun while wee guy's asleep. Fancy joining me with a good book?

[raysparx]

Dark alley,baseball bat ove the knee or elbow spring to mind, Have you got an alibi sir ? yes I was having a meal with my friends, but not all of us could do this, I could and would, no one messes with my family, If pinks b/f is not like this that is fair enough,pay somebody else, I would do this if all other means failed me.

[PinkFizz]

Its going to be a nightmare as the ex's parents are due to take my son on holiday next friday - it has been booked for months - and now my b/f doesnt want them to take him as he says they could fill his headwith all sorts of rubbish about their version of events.

[bobtheturkey]

see raymondo is with me, quite frankly anyone threatens violence to a woman and id be very direct im not one for faffing :) and yes we done a unique way of dealing with things over here kick :)

[redcrx]

what do you think to him going away with them? Im sure your bf has a point but its up to you at the end of the day

[raysparx]

Hi pink,

I think I would let him go,they are his grandparents and must idolise him,don't let it ruin that,if they do try that rubbish then do something,but mention to them you don't want your problems discussed with a child, good luck pinkie, Ray xxx

[kick3m0n]

I'd never want that on my conscience, and frankly I'd be terrified that one day, my son would find out what I'd done/arranged. Then he'd have no parent he could be proud of :o(

[raysparx]

wise words proffessor bob,violence towards a lady or child is stepping over the line, wallop, take that wazzok !!!!

[kick3m0n]

Pink, I agree with Ray re the hols situation.

[bobtheturkey]

he would be quite proud that an idiot was prevented from ruining his and his mums life, i just think there is too much pc nonsense in society kick its akin to not being to beat the crap out of a burglar who is about to rob you

[bobtheturkey]

yes raymondo **** the police he would be eating out of straw by now but each to their own

[PinkFizz]

Yes I think he should go on the holiday with them,but the problem being is that I have to drive son down to them in Essex next friday,and seeing as the police are due to visit matey-boy next tues or wed,then he is going to go ballistic,and so are they!! And they will prob tell son bits of it.