I'm a weirdo!

[nicnicnic]

How can I stop myself being so clingy?! I seem to be getting good at scaring men away, and it's doing my head in!

[Ethel]

Recognising there is a problem is a huge step. Things can only get better!

Easier said than done, but if you are happy to be single the less clingy you will be.

So, develop your own interests that really keep you interested and occupied.

Look after your friendships and cultivate them - good friends will last a lifetime. But it does mean spending time with them!

Enjoy your life! Your happiness does not depend on finding a partner, but you may one day allow a man to share your wonderful life.

[miffy63]

You sound quite insecure. You need to love yourself before you can love anyone else. I spent 2 years doing just that and I feel, on the whole, a more rounded person and I don't mind being on my own, in fact I love it. That said, I go through moments of insecurity - I think we all do.

[nicnicnic]

I'm not overly insecure, although I do like the feeling of being in a couple and having someone hat loves me no matter what. I tend to freak people out early on, and I seem to be doing it again now! I really like the guy, so how can I stop it?

[spk]

Relllaaaxxxx. Nobody likes feeling like their back is against a wall. Get to know him, take it easy, dont be trying to bag him, tag him and drag him home. People scare very easy. Have your own interests and dont be so dependant on somebody you barely know. Nobody wants to be alone, but the best way to do it is to come across as overly clingy. You need to get in the mindframe that this person should be lucky to be with you, not the other way around. Nobody wants a nutty stalker craving love and attention. Be cool ! :O)

[tyynikala]

Just stay how you are! Really!
There will be alot of men out there who want/enjoy a clingy woman!
Don't try to change yourself is my advice, Go for a different type of bloke maybe...:-)

[bloaterbum]

It's difficult Iknow but you should always communicate with your men and that will help .Try to have interests of your own too that will make you less reliant on the other person

[Chappers]

If you asked me which I would prefer, a clingy girl or one who doesn't give a crap if she's with me or not...I know which I'd choose!

Don't go changing...just change the men you go for!