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just talk to them!
talk about them, listen to what they have to say and dont barrage them with your incredible stories about YOU.
make a joke, on the spot jokes are best...not ones from a book.....if she says something, try and relate to it with a past experience of your own...but only tell a long story if you are good at tellin one.....and you should know by now if you are a good story teller, cos its a straight out put off by borin them with the details....
....be yourself (cheesey i know, but it works), depending on where you are different things can work...if you work with a few girls you like, get into their good books first. Help them with the photocopier if its not working, be nice, cheery and smile!
Also maybe dont try and go after her, let her come to you...a glance across a room, a smile, these things can be a turn on and your body language can make a big difference. If you "chat" her up, maybe go off for a bit and wait for her to come back to you, if she does, shes definetely interested if not, dont bother.
Dont try and grab attention all the time but dont hide in the corner either.
common sense plays a big part, (calling them "women folk" doesnt)
Just play it cool and remember, you're not out for a quick hump, you like this girl and you want her to like you!
I myself dont usually go and meet women, they seem to meet me...but thats just me i suppose....sorry i can be of any more help.... Im sure you have some female friends too, and that can help you along your way as well...
Good luck with it mate
Dan