How to....

[Silversky]

How do you get over a broken heart and/or jealously?

[curiosity]

Whats happened?

[Silversky]

It's dead akward, cause a lad from where I work, and I really liked him for ages. We got along as really good friends, until I admitted to him that I did like him, he said he liked me too. But he was already dating someone.
It's a couple of months down the line now, and they've broken up. I'm pretty convinced he knows I still really like him. But he will purposely flirt with other people right in front of me, and talk about it. It really fustrates me.
For example, Today he just met this random girl and was kissing her and being really affectionate to her and right off with me. Even though he was (not kissing me) but being affectionate to me afew hours before! Then when she left, he was exactly the same as he was before.
It really hurt. Theres no other way to describe how I felt.
That's about it really....

[curiosity]

Well, I don't think it's heartbroken it may be mild jealously (which is good cos it's shows you your bothered which means passion/lust which means fun/head over heels etc.) However This has been purposely triggered by an admiror who (since knowing you liked him has got rid of GF) doesn't want to come full on to you for fear of rejection, or looking too keen, or wondering if you really did like him. You're both playing "the game" which is fun one night and not the next. If you really think there's something to be had from this, then relax go all gooey eyed and fall head over heels in love with him. He'll then have the confidence to sweep you off your feet, find his most romantic inner feelings, and admit this. Meanwhile you know yourself that you are playing a game and if the response isn't what you get then you move on, then you know this system works, cos he really was just out to use you or annoy. However I think we'll be seeing hats.

[Silversky]

Ha! thanks for that Curiosity, that's made me feel tonnes better....
And I think we probably are playing "the game" with each other, for example last week, we had a great time together. It's so annoying, if he likes me, then I wish he'd just tell me, cos it drives me mad! And I'm crazy about him.
But thinking about it, and overlooking the situation, I can be just as bad as him. However, I've never kissed anyone else in front of him, but I talk to other guys from work, and mess around with them, just like I do with him.
So I guess it should be a bit of a punishment.
Thanks curiosity
xxxx

[Silversky]

Not sure about the hats though..... not just yet anyway ;-)