Ex's!

[Rubyrose]

Hey all,

(I'm at work on AB... whoohoo)

Me and my ex have been broken up for 7 months now!! Thats a long time and I thought I was 100% over him... until I was out with his mate the other day and we started chatting about him and I found out him and his new girlfriend (The one he left me for) are going on holiday for 2 weeks! This seemed to really upset me and now I keep thinking about him! I don't want him back and I am having the time of my life now but I can't seem to let it go!!! Any thoughts as to why?

[whiffey]

Hey hi Rubes !!!!!

Good to see you, and unusual for you to mention your love life lol xxx

[Rubyrose]

Hey boys.... should have known you two would be the first to give Non replies... Lol ;o)

[danimarie91]

No thoughts as to why you feel like that, but i had exactly the same thing happen to me, just thought you might want to know that your not alone!

[Rubyrose]

Thanks Danimarie... Maybe its coz me and him never went on a holiday abroad together!!! I don't know! We went away a lot together but never abroad! he is going abroad with 'her'!!!

[havinmysay]

the reason being is because he hurt u leaving u for another girl and knowing he is getting on with his life without u.the easiest way to get over it is to cut all ties and have no contact that includes his mates iv been in the same situation and it hurts fora while but u'll get over it

[stylinsam]

hi rubyrose glad to have you back!!xx

[Rubyrose]

Thanks 'Havinmysay'.. but I did think I was over it! I have moved on with my life far more than he has moved on with his. He is in the same job, same house, with the girl he left me for and he doesn't see any of his mates anymore or bother coming out. He has put on weight and he lets her boss him about! I have got a new job, many new friends, sorted out my debts, out every weekend.... actually.... f*ck him! Why do I care? I can't change my mates though... most of them are mates we had together and my best mate is his best mates ex wife!! They see eachother coz of the kids so we are all linked somehow! I think perhaps its coz I haven't got a boyfriend as well.. someone to do all that stuff with! I don't want one though... and have had offers... but maybe thats why! Ohwell!

[Rubyrose]

Hey Stylinsam... hows tricks hun?

I am not back as much as before but as I tend to have work gaps when I have nothing to do I thought I might as well pop in and say hi!

[spk]

Ahh Ruby ruby my little turtle dove- you know I feel your pain. Its been a year and a half since me and him split and Im still not over it yet. The answer isnt in Vietnam either !
:O( They tell me when you fall in love again it will fade. First cut is the deepest and all that. And remember we all love you if I was that way inclined we could run away to the hills together but you have some vital organs missing for me !

[Rubyrose]

Spk, my little cherub.... its been to long since we were on here together... (((hug)))
I am over him... honest.. I am.... and I know I am saying it over and over again but thats the only way to convince myself! ;o)
We could still run away together hun but maybe drag some cyber males with us?

[electricblue]

Rubyrose dont you DARE feel like that,all the rows they're gonna be having on holiday brrrrrrrrrrr,its accepting the fact that that part of your life is over,you'r gonna feel bit sad but its saying goodbye to the last thoughts of that relationship and accepting your life is now going up!!

[havinmysay]

sounds like your havin a wicked time and more fool him if u have the same friends try and not bring your ex into the subject time will heal itself

[spk]

exactly electric blue its his loss. The knew bird sounds like a witch anyway good enough for him ! Ive missed you Rubes so nice to have you back !! xxx :O)

[spk]

Ooh Ruby we could do auditions for two spiffing boys to come with us? How about naked with dickie bows and roses between their teeth all lined up?

[Rubyrose]

Thanks Electricblue... I know holidays tend to 'make or break' a relationship! I don't know which way it will go but we shall see!

Havinmysay - I am having a wicked time.. I am making up for the last 5yrs of singledom I missed coz of him! Its great.. ;o)

Spk - She is a witch... she is so plain and EVERYONE says the same thing about her 'she is nice, but she is just there... there is nothing to her and you can't talk to her'! But if he wants a plain Jane then thats fine... I think I was too fiesty for him! I have met her twice and introduced myself and said hello and stuff and she is so scared of me she can't even muster a false smile! Pfffft.... divvy cow!
Lets send out cyber audition flyers asap... I could do with some d!cky and a rose! Lol

[spk]

LMAO sounds good to me ! A real woman was too much for him Ruby, if you were a food you would be a big knicker bocker glory with cherries and chocolate sauce and more cherries on top. Shes plain yogurt at room temperature. BORING ! Im blowing a big fat cyber raspberry at the thought of her ! ;O)

[Rubyrose]

Oh Spk... thats cracked me up! Hahaha. Well done you.
I went away to Bournemouth where me and him used to go once a year... I went with a mate... I thought it would upset me to see all the things we did together but me and my mate had a grand old time and did some babe watching on the beach! Nice!

[spk]

Always nice ! Some days are worse than other babes and the little things tip you over the edge eh. Come on here and we will always cheer you up. By the way- I cant stop visualising rows of totty with the dickie bows and the roses and and and ahhhh !~! xx