Men

[Eleana]

I've started seeing a guy but i always seem to be the one who contacts him first. do you think its true that men are more interested in women who play 'hard to get'?

[~Wingnut~]

Hi Eleana!

I certainly played hard to get with my man and we've been married 7 years now and been together 9! 2 beautiful children to show for our love (yes I know, sick bucket's over there in the corner!)
The only reason I played hard to get, was because I wanted to see how serious he felt about me, worked too! :o)
Do you think he would ring you if you didn't ring him? If you don't think he would then you have to ask yourself if it's what you want.
All the Best xx

[~Wingnut~]

Thinking about it, if you flipped the question round, he's the one playing hard to get, are you more interested in him because of this?
Just something to ponder maybe, or screw your head up, sorry if it has!

[Eleana]

Hi wingnut, thanks for your reply. Yes, the less he appears interested me the more attracted i am to him! I think he is definetly the kind of guy that likes the chase so i am going to try not to contact him for a while and see if he gets in touch, its just so tempting to contact him though, arghh!

[Cobra.]

No....I hate birds who play hard to get...(I dont mean I like ones who "put out".)

I mean I dont like playing games.

I like flirty women, not necessarily forward, but upfront with their attraction to me.

If they play hard to get I lose interest, and wont chase.

[steviep165]

snap.

[Eejit]

I agree with the above. Men are boys. They want to be wanted. But they want to be wanted by girls who act like nuns!!!

[noxlumos]

I hate blatant women who are falling over themselves, but game players and manipulators just get used so just be natural, friendly and nice. Not too upfront but not "clever" and playing hard to get. Both are a real turn off to me. Eejit's right about the Nun thing though...

[bookermel]

A nun with loose habits maybe? ;-)