Bloke Dilemma!

[Rubyrose]

Hey all,

I am loving my new job and I am the youngest female there and the next one up is 24 and then they are all above 35... there is plenty of male totty too!

There is a guy there who kind of likes me but I think he is shy. He has asked me out for a drink twice now but then kind of brushes it off when we carry on joking about stuff! He never asks me in person... only by email! He is sweet and funny but I just don't fancy him... but I don't want to offend him! There is another guy there who likes me too.. and he makes it very obvious and he is funny and loud and cocky and we get on well too but I just don't seem to fancy him either! I like both of these guys and I reckon if I got to know them better then maybe.... just maybe something could happen but to be honest I know neither of them are really my type! What should I do? Go for drinks with them just because they asked and it might be a laugh or... leave it be and all just be mates as I love my job and don't want to f*ck things up?
I do fancy this other guy though... he is fit as but he is married! Damn!

[Rubyrose]

Should have known you'd be no help Wardy! Was just thinking about you actually... I was clearing out my hotmail inbox and had some old messages from you! ;o)

[Rubyrose]

If that were the case then I wouldn't have said 'I was thinking about you'... I would have said 'I was laughing at you'... ;o)

[mnko]

nice put down rubyrose

[whiffey]

Hi Rubes, blokey problems again for a change :)

Good luck mate.

[Rubyrose]

Probably could Wardy but most of those guys don't get there parole for a while yet! ;o)

Awww you know I love you really...

[Rubyrose]

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[Rubyrose]

Hey Mnko.. :o)

Hey Whiffey... :o)... I know... I am unstoppable!

[wonderwoman1]

ruby i dont mean to be rude but how do you know they all fancy you??

[Rubyrose]

Not rude at all Wonderwoman.. I know it sounds really big headed but I am not 'guessing' that they like me! I have been told by many people and they have been saying things to people too! Plus they both asked me on dates!

[Rubyrose]

Can I just clarify... its only 2 guys... not a fleet!

[claireyfairy]

if you know that they are not your type then don't make it a date. Go for drinks with them as mates and make sure that they know that this is the case and that anyone else at work who knows is aware - you don't want to get a reputation ;-)