stevie - hit a nerve?
you know its true, so your snooty little "oh, pathetic!" won't change that.
it's rather more pathetic that so many men bandy round this little catch-all phrase whenever it suits them, in order to shift blame, make women feel undermined and neurotic and absolve themselves of any wrongdoings.
now thats pathetic...
use it a lot yourself do you? figures...
or perhaps you would care to explain to me why they use it when they are clearly in the wrong?
it has been said to me when an ex stole my money to go to the pub and i was annoyed,
when as ex didn't come home for 2 days without a word, and when an ex dismantled my bike for no reason and couldn't put it back together again,
an ex bought me birthday golf club - he plays not me,
an ex who insulted my family...
do you think any woman, who was not having a period, would have smiled and nodded at any of these things?
or do you think my anger was justified?