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Don't you just hate being jealous....!?
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I'm so jealous it frustrates me!
You know that feeling when you know it's pathetic but you can't help it. And u get that horrible stressed feeling in your chest...?
Anyway - Scenario: Basically, i'll cut a long story short (as poss). A conversation we were having in bed last night turned to this girl that my boyfriend has mentioned on more than one occassion (that he works with) - not in detail but enough to notice. So i was like "Do u fancy her?" and he said he "did, used to.." and then went on to tell me that he "doesnt know any bloke in the office that hasn't liked her...", so i was like great.....
Then i couldnt sleep all night!! Coz of that stupid stressed/jealous feeling!!!
(the conversation got to her because my boyfriend wanted to use my debit card to buy Liverpool FC tickets at work and said if they need to speak to the card holder (me) could this other chick pretend to be me.)
By the way i'm not jealous to the extent that i get peed off if he buys mens mags (FHM type), or says whether he fanices celebs etc - just the thought of him trying it on with another woman and when he mentions his ex - thats when i get jealous!
yes... i know its pathetic but i can't help it - anyone else similar??
You know that feeling when you know it's pathetic but you can't help it. And u get that horrible stressed feeling in your chest...?
Anyway - Scenario: Basically, i'll cut a long story short (as poss). A conversation we were having in bed last night turned to this girl that my boyfriend has mentioned on more than one occassion (that he works with) - not in detail but enough to notice. So i was like "Do u fancy her?" and he said he "did, used to.." and then went on to tell me that he "doesnt know any bloke in the office that hasn't liked her...", so i was like great.....
Then i couldnt sleep all night!! Coz of that stupid stressed/jealous feeling!!!
(the conversation got to her because my boyfriend wanted to use my debit card to buy Liverpool FC tickets at work and said if they need to speak to the card holder (me) could this other chick pretend to be me.)
By the way i'm not jealous to the extent that i get peed off if he buys mens mags (FHM type), or says whether he fanices celebs etc - just the thought of him trying it on with another woman and when he mentions his ex - thats when i get jealous!
yes... i know its pathetic but i can't help it - anyone else similar??
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Just want to say nat, thanks for asking this question as some of the answers have made me feel a bit better! Think i'm going to take the advice given to you and let him go and be nice about it! not worth worrying about i guess!
Bloody hard work though...! ;o)
Whats that saying about steak and hamburgers! :O)
Bloody hard work though...! ;o)
Whats that saying about steak and hamburgers! :O)
Well i know exactly the feelings your talking about.
Me and my ex are still really good friends, but we not long ago split up. The other day he started talking about this girl that we knew from college, and i got the same feeling in my chest. Luckily i wasnt facing him at the time because i was cooking a stir fry lol but my voice went up two octaves higher and i said ' oh oh thats nice that you saw her' ..
he obviously knew i was bothered and i was so angry with myself for A) being bothered and B) my voice giving me away lol but i turned around and said " why would i be botherd that you were talking to her I AM NOT BOTHERED !" and with that flick the wooden spoon i was holding and a noodle flew onto his head!
made me happy for a while! lol
Me and my ex are still really good friends, but we not long ago split up. The other day he started talking about this girl that we knew from college, and i got the same feeling in my chest. Luckily i wasnt facing him at the time because i was cooking a stir fry lol but my voice went up two octaves higher and i said ' oh oh thats nice that you saw her' ..
he obviously knew i was bothered and i was so angry with myself for A) being bothered and B) my voice giving me away lol but i turned around and said " why would i be botherd that you were talking to her I AM NOT BOTHERED !" and with that flick the wooden spoon i was holding and a noodle flew onto his head!
made me happy for a while! lol
rubyrose - just reading ur answer made me laugh out loud (literally) in my office.
If i said something like that he'd either a)think i was taking the pee b) think someone else had logged on to my email or c) think i was on crack....
as much as im sure it would tempt him and make him think of me, its just too out of character...
caz21 - glad the question helped - it is bloody hard work ur right!
turkey154 - lol - very subtle in deed. Although it is extremely hard to sound and look like u dont care when in fact ur how body is feeling the exact opposite!
If i said something like that he'd either a)think i was taking the pee b) think someone else had logged on to my email or c) think i was on crack....
as much as im sure it would tempt him and make him think of me, its just too out of character...
caz21 - glad the question helped - it is bloody hard work ur right!
turkey154 - lol - very subtle in deed. Although it is extremely hard to sound and look like u dont care when in fact ur how body is feeling the exact opposite!
Caz - Sometimes I think thats the best approach!
I heard once that 'Worrying is like a rocking chair... it gives you something to do but doesn't get you anywhere'!!! Lol. I like that one. Worry about it when it happens! (if it happens)
Someone (on AB) said to me the other day that I am a 'big knicker bocker glory with extra cherries and chocolate sauce and more cherries on top and the girl my ex left me for was a natural plain yogurt served at room temperature!!!! Hahaha! Made me laugh!
Hahaha! Turkey... I just coughed out some carrot because of your 'noodle' comment! Good one! :o)
I heard once that 'Worrying is like a rocking chair... it gives you something to do but doesn't get you anywhere'!!! Lol. I like that one. Worry about it when it happens! (if it happens)
Someone (on AB) said to me the other day that I am a 'big knicker bocker glory with extra cherries and chocolate sauce and more cherries on top and the girl my ex left me for was a natural plain yogurt served at room temperature!!!! Hahaha! Made me laugh!
Hahaha! Turkey... I just coughed out some carrot because of your 'noodle' comment! Good one! :o)
I'm afraid I am a saucy minx when it comes to things like that... Hehe... I used to do it to my ex all the time but it was soooo wasted as he had such a low sex drive and he wasn't that adventurous! I should have been out trying it on other guys! Lol.
But now I have a new job and I work with some fitties and I am the youngest female in the office... (22yrs) and all the rest are about 30something! ;o)
But now I have a new job and I work with some fitties and I am the youngest female in the office... (22yrs) and all the rest are about 30something! ;o)
lol - a "creepy little engineer" - how could u possibly turn down such an attractive offer?!
I wish i worked in a bigger office - more of a social life. Although there are defo benefits of working for a small company - eg meeting in the pub next door, leaving early, recieved a quick pay rise/promotion, can surf the net without anyone noticing!
Anyway... back to men.
What kinda blokes do u go for? looks wise?
I wish i worked in a bigger office - more of a social life. Although there are defo benefits of working for a small company - eg meeting in the pub next door, leaving early, recieved a quick pay rise/promotion, can surf the net without anyone noticing!
Anyway... back to men.
What kinda blokes do u go for? looks wise?
He was sooooo creepy! He was small than me and really skinny and great big thick glasses and a weird smile.... this is how our convo went...
Him - So you out partying this weekend?
Me - No, not this weekend. Will be a quiet one.
Him - What, you don't have your nice boyfriend taking you somewhere nice?
Me - No I am single fortunately.
Him - Good looking girl like you? I would have thought some guy would have snapped you up.
Me - They try but I turn them down. Enjoying being single.
Him - So what if a nice guy asked you out on a date?
Me - I'd say no.
Him - What if I asked you out on a date?
Me - Haha... I'd say no.
Then I carried on typing and he walked off!!!! Lol
I tend to go for dark haired and featured guys! If I am going solely on looks but if I get to know a guy and he makes me laugh and I get on well with him then it doesn't matter what he looks like coz I still find myself fancying him!
Him - So you out partying this weekend?
Me - No, not this weekend. Will be a quiet one.
Him - What, you don't have your nice boyfriend taking you somewhere nice?
Me - No I am single fortunately.
Him - Good looking girl like you? I would have thought some guy would have snapped you up.
Me - They try but I turn them down. Enjoying being single.
Him - So what if a nice guy asked you out on a date?
Me - I'd say no.
Him - What if I asked you out on a date?
Me - Haha... I'd say no.
Then I carried on typing and he walked off!!!! Lol
I tend to go for dark haired and featured guys! If I am going solely on looks but if I get to know a guy and he makes me laugh and I get on well with him then it doesn't matter what he looks like coz I still find myself fancying him!
Today in my office its me and my 58 yr old lady colleague, the delivery guys are the highlight of my day - that coupled with sneaking the odd chance to dip into here and yahoo!
Rubyrose - know what you mean about men with low sex drives, as I said on another post, I know when my man wants servicing when he lifts up his arm nearest to me and doesnt wear pants in bed! That's my signal to go ahead and pleasure him (!)
Rubyrose - know what you mean about men with low sex drives, as I said on another post, I know when my man wants servicing when he lifts up his arm nearest to me and doesnt wear pants in bed! That's my signal to go ahead and pleasure him (!)
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