well you have to fill in an application form first, then you get an interview which is just a little chat and a chance to ask questions, then you will start the training which i think is a few weekends, and they decide whether you are suitable or not. i think they onyl have 2 intakes a year, one in feb time & one in sept.
Hi. I am 'inactive' and have been for a number of years, but yes, I am a trained Samaritan, with three years' experience as a counsellor - if i can asist, ask away.
I'm fairly sure that one of the conditions of being a Samaritan is that you must keep your role as a Samaritan confidential... I could be wrong, but I'm sure that's the case?
May try to investigate this and will post back.
Yes, they do like you to keep your status secret - people talk to other people, and it can inhibit someone from calling / visiting in case they bump into you.
I did actually counsel someone I know quite well through marriage problems, he didn't recognise my voice on the phone. Had he done so, I would have offered to pass him on to another volunteer, or carry on talking on the basis of strict confidentiality - his choice, but that didn't arise.
Did you not have to disclose to this friend that you knew him before he divulged personal information to you, surely he was thinking you were a stranger?