I can totally sympathise with you CT and send out much love to you and your wife at what must be a very difficult time for her. I am constantly shocked and angry at GP's handing out pills as the answer to all lifes problems. Antidepressants are bad news. Far more effective would be a healthful and nutritious diet to keep the seratonin levels steady and counselling to help with the grief, grieving is a natural process and I am afraid that artificial substances just mask what is really going on inside. Please try to find some alternatives, yoga, reiki, massage therapy, meditation, aromatherapy will all help with release of anger and stress and help to bring her back to a state of peace. Much love and light to you both. Amara xx