Womens libido

[Champagne]

See this article: http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/4790313.stm

'Tis very interesting, but I have another theory. Maybe a woman's libido diminishes because men become lazy in the bedroom once they've secured a relationship. Gone are the days of impressing your woman with hours and hours of foreplay in order to prove your sexual prowess. Instead us girls are left with 2 minute wonders. Wham! Bam! And no 'Thank you ma'am'.

What are your views?

[B00]

Or it could be some of us prefer a cup of tea and a Martina Cole book instead- rofl!

Afternoon Ham!!! :-)

[Champagne]

Well I'm usually too drunk to even be aware that I'm having sex!! G'day BOO. ;o)

[guinnessman]

Ahh it's just like old times on Chatterbank now !

Champers, Boo, who next ??!

Afternoon ladies !!!

[metagirl]

I was alot more sexually upfront when I was single but I think thats because bedding guys was just part of the whole "wild" experience of being single, going out and thinking you are God's Gift.

Once you are in a secure relationship other things come in to replace that experience which aren't so exciting so women's libido suffers. I think the answer is Role Play!

[B00]

Hey GM, good to see you too xxx

So if you're usually too trollied to notice how long ya BF takes Ham, why are ya ruddy whinging? You just want your cake and eat it too don't ya? LOL

;-)

[B00]

Ahhhh role play.....

Tried that once.....Mr Boo misheard me one time and came dressed in a farmers smock chewing a blade of grass......

[Champagne]

Hi GM!

And why can't I have it all, BOO? I'll stomp my feet and scweam and scweam until I'm sick if that's what it takes!

I think routine plays a big part in affecting libido too. And not just the woman's libido either. The day-to-day drudgery of working life, kids, housework etc. etc. can all reduce sexual activity.

But then thinking about it... before I lived with my fella I only saw him 3 or 4 times a week so we would have sex 3 or 4 times. And that hasn't changed at all. So what am I whinging about???!!!!!