why can't i find a boyfriend ?

[bond]

are there lots of other people out there who are looking to find a partner, and find it impossibly difficult ? I am very good looking, intelligent, young(ish), enjoy all the normal things in life, but everyone i meet appears very different to me. my friends may suggest i am looking too hard for someone, but then i think, if i don't look then i won't find. btw i am male (i'll be biased and say i'm sure it's more difficult...)

[tradey]

maybe your trying and looking too hard,it will happen when you least except it dont worry

[map71070]

Although it seems hard I think your mates are probably right. I don't think it matters whether you're straight or gay, sometimes you just have to chill a bit and I bet you'll be surprised.

[map71070]

P.S. I'll keep everything crossed for you tho that Mr Right is just round the corner.
P.P.S If he turns out not gay can you send him in my direction LOL
Good luck

[RATTER15]

Try a dating agency, not the stigma these days.

[gun_ru_thugg]

well to that all i can say is i was in the same situation for a long time and all i did was be myself i tryed not to worry about it i know its frustrating and can get irritating but all u got to do is be yourself and have patience i did now im engaged and have a daughter who is 8 months old today have patience and good things happen

[Cockney_si]

I find I'm in the same boat but being a Male that can't find the right female....There's always a catch to anyone that I find remotely attractive lately...they all seem to live miles away or have boyfriends or are already married.

What you need is a bit of patience and maybe put the word around (without trying to make yourself sound desperate, it scrares the men off, he he) that you are single.

Try diferent social circles, making new friends at opens up lots of oportunities too.

[Kialouanne]

I feel the same but from a young female looking for a man perspective.

It's been so bad this last year that I don't even remember the last date I went on! *cry*