to do the dirty or not to do the dirty....

[yerburyclos]

I have been with my girl for a while now, she has put a fair bit of weight on over the past few months and i am beginning to look at other, better looking girls. my missus has really let herself go and i am no longer attracted to her and when she asks me if i think she looks fat or ugly i dont know what to say so i walk away. i am tempted to stray just so i can sleep with a good looking girl for a change as it has become routine and unpleasant to do the deed with my girl. this would satisfy the need in me and still keep her happy cos i would still b with her.

[yerburyclos]

i want to be with her (her brain, personality, mind etc) but i want to shag a fit bird (that used to be her)

[andy-hughes]

If you need to ask advice from strangers, then I think you know the answer to your question.

If you are serious - and you really are that shallow that you guage your girlfriend's attraction by the amount of weight she is carrying, then do her a favour - say goodbye. She, and the rest of the female population of this fair isle of ours would be better off without you in her orbit. Make room for someone who values her as a person, not a magazine fantasy - you'll save a fortune, which you can use to subscribe to internet sites which suit your taste - and your IQ.

[crete]

we have yet another idiot on site who knows who it is and do we really care this wont run long

[drestie]

Andy, will you marry me?

[x sparkle x]

why are you with her if you don't find her attractive? stop hurting her and leave her to it.

[crete]

why are people answering this dope ?

[yerburyclos]

ok so if i lie and say "no darling, of course your arse dont look big in that size 22 skirt" would that be kinder?

[wonderwoman1]

yerburyclos, wow, i feel like i am falling for you in a big way!! what a real man you are!!! she doesnt know how lucky she is!

[BigBishop]

Buy her a treadmill

[andy-hughes]

I started posting when no-one had replied, was interupted for a few minutes, and my completed response clocks in at 26 - you really have fired one off her yerburyclos!

i realy hope you are just having a laugh, sad, but better than the notion that you could actually be serious.

[yerburyclos]

whats not to be serious about? i dont find the girl im shagging attractive anymore. i think she is too fat and has let herself go. what's to joke about?

[andy-hughes]

Awww, drestie, you've made my day!

A x

[twain11]

Just tell her of your concern for her health as obesity is a killer you know. Maybe set up an exercise plan for her and a special diet. She might just need that little nudge into action.

[BigBishop]

I'm a fan of BBWs and am a feeder, so she would be ideal for me.

[crete]

go away you prat

[yerburyclos]

no that wont work, she is LAZY, she sits on her arse all day eating a watching the jeremy kyle show. she does not want to change

[kissyfur]

Maybe she has got fat on purpose so you will stop trying to put your widget in her??