My boyfriend always has to initiate sex too. If he�s not in the mood it�s just not gonna happen. So I just say �yes� whenever he wants it (except when he�s annoyingly drunk which is about 90% of the time. Hahahahaha!)
champaine and mckluff your so right well wen the bloody plummer aint so lazy to get here then maybe that will be the amnswer but to be honest arent all men the same lol
well we are the silly ones that try and please them when they want it. Quite often selfish people have also been spoilt. Say no when you dont want to, and when you do and he doesnt, dont moan as this is then you being selfish. A happy medium is not needed. But yer there is the old joke that women never seem to want it 'oh I've got a headache coming on' but I actual think its men that dont more often than us. Or maybe we just like to please :-)