Too good looking?

[Sebass]

I am a 26 year old man and I take great pride in my appearance. I sometime feel that I am too good looking for my own good and that others are beneath me. My friend thinks that this is a shallow approach to have but I disagree as aiming high always ensures that I have the best woman around. What are you opinions on this? Would it be fair for me to aim lower and bag a not so good looking woman when I know I would be constantly thinking about how I could do better, or am I right to set my sights high?

[redcrx]

if you want to 'bag' shallow women with the same outlook on life as you then go ahead.
At 26 maybe you have not matured enough to realise that looks arent the be all and end all in life. Im sure that once you do mature then you will realise that.
Anyone who thinks they are too good looking is usually the one thats really rough as sh1t. Beautiful people usually dont know how beautiful they are thus adding to the appeal.

[4getmenot]

I spose being good looking helps, but saying you're good looking and knowing it puts alot of girls off. Just reading your question you wouldnt be what I'd go for. I only have a small door on my flat, you'd never get your head in.

[newtron]

Sounds like you are too wrapped up in looks. I agree physical attraction is important, but personality is also very important. You do sound pretty shallow.

[pingping]

is this is serious question or a p!ss take?

[noxlumos]

Lol @ 4getmenot.

Come on mate, you're either a wind up or an utter prat. in the real world looks are one of the least important things there are, once you get out of your teens anyway.
My first wife was gorgeous, stunning to look at, but she was shallow and emotionally retarded, she's single if you're interested, you'd make a lovely couple.
My second wife is still beautiful but in a much more understated way and her real beauty lies in her kindness and her ambition for others as well as herself and her ability to see the good in people.
If you just want a brainless bint whose good at applying slap go ahead mate, it's your funeral, but I'd look a bit deeper if I were you and "bag" someone with a personality.

[BigMac]

Oh, Lord! It's hard to be humble
When you're perfect in every way
When you can't stand to look in the mirror
'Cause you get better looking each day
To know me is to love me
I must be a hell of a man
Oh, Lord! It's hard to be humble
But I'm doing the best that I can

[redcrx]

id say wind up Nox, or at least I really hope so. My answer stands even if its a wind up.

lol@ sis thats brill

[Loosehead]

You may be a pretty boy but you are not beautiful. As pointed out above superficial looks are ugly to some, real beauty is mental as well as physical.

The way you are going you will end up with succession of encounters with bints as shallow as you. Neither of you will be faithful because as the "pretty people" you'll each need to have that confirmed regularly too satisfy the enormous egos you carry around. Mature quick or be miserable after the "pretty" period.

[Sebass]

Why do you all assume that because someone is beautiful, they are automatically stupid or shallow or nasty? I have friends and ex girlfriends who were stunning and have the personality to match that. No matter what way you word it, everyone wants someone who is nice looking. Period. And if I am able to find nice looking girls then why not? I would not go for a stunning girl with the personality of a mop, but if I can get both looks and personality then I am would be a fool to say no.

[Loosehead]

If you refer to the wording in your own question and imagine you where a stranger reading it, you may be able to see why we got the impression we did.

[yesmadam]

I smell something fishy Seabass post us up a piccy gorgeous one :-)

[redcrx]

'i sometime feel that i am too good looking for my own good and that others are beneath me'

And you dont think you are shallow?

Yep it must be a wind up

[Sebass]

Why would I want to post a picture of myself to a bunch of strangers?

[pingping]

Sebass - you posted really good advice just now to another question (19yr old with 50 yr old) - so you can't be that shallow.

Everyone always deserves to be with someone who treats them with love and respect - does it really matter what they look like?

[redcrx]

and where did anyone say anything about being nasty? Or is that how your friends see you?

[4getmenot]

I dont assume all beautiful people are shallor or stupid. But beauty comes from within. and you asked what our opinion was. And In my opinion no one likes a Mr Vain. Why wouldnt you bag a not so good looiong woman, you may find she has the most beautiful personality. You say you have had lots of girlfriends maybe this is why you havent stuck with just one. Because you are looking for looks rather than a personality.

[Sebass]

Not me, the impression that people get of beautiful women, people assume that they are nasty shallow minded people and it's kind of a stereo type now.

[yesmadam]

to prove how utterly gorgeous you say you are tis why... I love a bit of eye candy.

[4getmenot]

No one has said pretty woman are shallow or stupid. We are saying that there is more to people than looks.

[4getmenot]

If we were saying that which we wernt its no different than you saying anyone Not good looking is beneath you. But have you ever thought that some people may not find you good looking in the slightest. Everybody has different taste. and as I said even without a picture you come across as very ugly to me.