Abortion

[4getmenot]

Having a bit of a debate over on TV section about Eastenders last night and everyone is having a dig at Bradley for not sticking by her and them ending up having an abortion. I think he dealt with it brilliantly, maybe he should have been a bit more tactful but what are you opinions? Do you think because Stacie wanted it they should have tried? If he doesnt want to be a dad then she cant force him.

[natalie_1982]

Hey - not everyone is having a dig at Bradley missus!

I don't think they talked about options as much as they could have done. I think Bradley could have been more tactful, but mostly I think Stacey should have said how she felt.

[4getmenot]

but she did say in Thursdays episode, he knew she wanted it. At end of the day whether she'd said it or not she wanted it so she didnt need to go through with it. But she cant force Bradley to be a dad.

[PinkFizz]

It would have never worked of only one of them wanted to keep the baby.I thought the acting was brilliant.But I do think this will split them up.

[4getmenot]

thats exactly my view pink. Why is bradley selfish when surely if she's have had the baby and wanted Bradley to stick around its her being selfish.

[redcrx]

i didnt see it.

It takes 2 people to make a baby. A guy should always wear a condom if he doesnt want kids (would stop a lot of the 'she tricked me and said she was on pill' excuses too).

A woman who falls pregnant is not the only one responsible so things have to be discussed. If the man doesnt want to continue the relationship or be a father then thats fair enough, you cant force him, but he should face up to the fact that he is a parent and as such has responsibilities towards that child.

if she really wanted the child then the child shouldve come before what she felt for Bradley.

[4getmenot]

Thats what annoys me in the world today. How alot of blokes are looked down on because they dont stand by their girlfriends if they get pregnant. Its up to them really, its alot different if they've said yer have it then legged it. But surely Bradley would be more in the wrong if he's said ok we'll have it when he doesnt want it.

[PinkFizz]

Have they discussed whether contraception failed or did they just not use any?

[redcrx]

if it failed then they are still responsible Pink surely.

[4getmenot]

She was on pill and it just failed.

[redcrx]

see, he should have used a condom too. That way he'd have a right to feel hard done by if she still fell pregnant.

[4getmenot]

no because they fail too. Why should he feel bad and she not feel bad that it failed.

[PinkFizz]

I didnt mean that redcrx - I just wondered if it was an accident or carelessness.

[4getmenot]

isnt that the same thing pink??

[LuckyMagpie]

i never personally had a problem with abortion and iv never myself been in that situation but watching that made me really think twice about the whole issue!

I agree with u 4getmenot... but i have one question... why is bradleys face so red?

[lady_p_gold]

Are we definitely sure she went ahead with it ... .I have a nagging doubt ....

[maggie01]

Contraception.