hmm i think im dumped

[boink]

Hi just bored and thought id say, i think my gf isn't talking to me, or maybe im dumped, she was drunk and stoned on saturday and i kinda said she was a f***-up not very nice i know, but she listens to no one else so i was hoping it would make her see sence.or shock her or something hmmm, i have a headache too and had to wait 2 hours for some fat army guy to interview me grrr

[joko]

why did you tell her she was a **** up?
what were you trying to make her see?

[redcrx]

Who are we meant to sympathise with?
to be honest i feel for the girlfriend. You (possible) good intentions were not thought through at all by sound of it

[spaced]

dont be too bothered mate, any girl that gets drunk and stoned wont remember a thing you said!

tell her to spend her money on something far more rewarding than weed.

On a serious note, if you feel bad then have a chat with her, but if shes ignoring you, dont beg, let her come running back to you. Be a man!

[boink]

im not expecting no sympathy, i think it was a terrible thing to say and i was just a tad annoyed at her when i said it, but she has loads of issues, and ive tried to make her see that doing what she does wont help. because she gets drunk and stoned pretty much whenever she can. But id had enough on saturday of her attitude and the fact that she acts like i dont excist most the time, so i snapped

[redcrx]

well fair enough then. Sounds like she needs proper help if its got to the stage where she takes no notice at all of you.

[spaced]

mate, if its got to a stage where she aint listening to you, let it go. Been there mate. Had an ex who thought drinking and getting stoned was more important than anything else. It may be for some people, but I wernt having any of it. After 3 yrs I got fed up and told her to sling her hook. it was the hardest but best thing i ever did

[Loosehead]

Sounds like a right result to me mate, good chance to get shot of the loser I'd say. Get yourself a girl who has some respect for you and herself.