what can you not resist?

[xJx]

what things/factors can blokes not resist about girls and girls about blokes? whats your biggest turn on that makes you want someone of the opposite sex!?!

[kick3m0n]

BD...couldn't possibly say, it would remove any remaining hint of msytique (lol). I will say tho that I tick 7 of your first list, and all of your second list! ;oP
Jon - how are you? Long time no read. Hope you're head's clear soon ;o)

[-Zorro-]

stylinsam, may I say that I have very sexy eyes

[-Zorro-]

I like tall slender (but not stick insects) brunnettes with long hair. 34C.

Enticing eyes and long legs

[doglady]

Ooh big arms in a t shirt so it's all tight round the muscle. With a tattoo poking out.

Mmmmm!!

[sandrajo]

nice blue eyes is a must and a nice bum would do for me.

[joby1]

Brown eyes, tall, black or d brown hair, luscious neck and a very pert bum! Oh and clean shoes! And manly shoulders! Oh and nice teeth.and smells nice.and.... a big wa........ I'm going don't worry....;-((

[dot.hawkes]

I am not really into looks, they could have a saggy ar$e as far as i am concerned, as long as they were honest and straight talking and a great guy : )))))

[tradey]

defo sexy eyes,shaven head a goaty oh and a hairy chest, oh lovey yummy

[dot.hawkes]

shaven head and a goaty? sounds like a Bond villain!

[TheTemptress]

yep...goaty beards do it and bald heads.....manners are a must....treat you like a princess ..let you get your own way but like a good arguement or discussion, a bit of intelligence, nice shoes and nails, no white socks, a suit!! ohhh ahhhh, smell divine, clean, good hair (styled)...a tidy flat or bedroom but most of all...respect women!!!!!

[Backdrifter]

Ah, kick, I didn't interpret it as flirting and even if I did, it wouldn't have tarnished your image, as 'forward' and 'surprising' were indeed on that list and I think would have flirting covered between them!

Very pleasing to have you say my list was distinctive, I liked that - thank you. Thinking back to nights in college bars, surveying who we fancied, no-one ever agreed with my choices.

I know you shied away from revealing the matches with the physical list but, out of curiosity, tell me one match (apart from boyish figure/small breasts which you already said elsewhere) and one mismatch, and I will ask no more.

[kick3m0n]

don't have a squint or wear specs, nor is my hair red or very short (chin length), but do have a scottish accent, a slight overbite, casual dress (t shirt and combats? check!), can be a bit scowly, esp if deep in thought, and sometimes (when nervous) I can be (and certainly feel) a physically awkward.
Quid pro quo? ;op

[Backdrifter]

You should see and hear me now. I'm going all gooey. Looking all scowly when deep in thought! That is SO CUTE!!!!! I think I do that too but then I tend to generally go around frowning even when I have no cause to, and don't even know I'm doing it. And you get physically awkward when nervous! Awwwwww! I feel like I'm going down a road I shouldn't here, but I can't resist asking - which bit of Scotland is your accent from? I have a major weakness for highland & island accents, having spent a LOT of time in those necks of the woods. But Clyde/Lothian is good too. Ah, what the hell - it's ALL good. By the way, chin-length hair is still potentially very good and can be exceedingly cute.

On accents all I can offer you is South London. I personally can't comment on my eyes, lips and smile but have been told a few times the eyes are a strong point - "velvety brown" one ex said. Someone else told me I had "beautiful lashes" - bizarre. Personally I don't much like my smile and prefer to scowl, it suits me better (but am a relatively 'up' person though). The rear end has also been favourably commented on, I'm happy to report.

Can tick off dark hair (dark brown) and height (6'1"). Thighs not insubstantial, but up to footballers' standards? Doubtful. And SOME chest hair, but I wouldn't qualify as hairy-chested. I don't think my hands are big for my size, probably just right.

Awww, you have an overbite... and that Ts & combats combo is just THE BUSINESS. Mr Kick is very very lucky, I surmise.

[kick3m0n]

lol, what a lovely post bd, thanks :o) Accent? Raised in the Highlands and Islands, tho fairly far south, and so not as lilting an accent as some, possibly. Live in the Lothians now but can still be identified as a west coaster from the accent lol what was a south Londoner doing in the H&Is?? :o)

[Backdrifter]

I just love the area and have spent a lot of time touring it. Never lived there, just lots of holiday time. Mrs BD would love us to live in an isolated croft house in Sutherland, Caithness or Orkney but while I enjoy visits to those areas I'd find it tough to leave London. The outskirts of Inverness or Kirkwall might suit me but as a crazed theatre addict I'd still get serious withdrawal, being separated from the hundreds of fringe theatres I'm surrounded by here.

Favourite visits have been to Lochinver and Orkney. At the end of our first long trip to Orkney, I welled up as I stood on the St Ola as it pulled away - I felt so drawn to the place, I hated leaving. I really love Stromness. I'm drawn to anywhere that doesn't look every other s*dding UK high street. Other random H&I memories - the nature reserve at Forsinard, there's a lone wooden bench in the middle of the Flow Country peatlands; I remember sitting there and realising it was the QUIETEST place I've ever been. Lochinver, 2001 - we'd spent a wonderful day hiking along hills around Kirkaig Falls - stopped off at a little cafe/bookshop on our way back, when the owner came out and gravely announced the World Trade Center attacks; stunned silence. I'll never forget that - when I think of the horror of that day I also think of rocky paths and remote hillsides; weird. Lying on my back on a farm track at 1am in Orkney, watching the northern lights for 2 hours - lying down was the only way to see as much of it as possible!

Already got our trip next year booked - first visit to Shetland. I also love Glasgow and can't wait to get back there. I was in Edinburgh for festival stuff last month and plan to have a 2008 holiday cramming in as many events as possible.