love making

[kat_2502]

Hi all, i was having a conversation with my mate this morning and as always we happened to get onto the subject of making love. Now he says that couples rarely come together and he has heard of many couples trying to achieve this that have failed miserably. Is this true? Apart from the obvious does it really mean that both partners are totally in love? See i thought it meant that they are both in touch with their inner self. What do you think?

[CiderMonkey]

not true with me and my partner. We don't seem to have any trouble with this. :-)

[The Sherman]

woman have orgasms? .....weird

[nat_84]

Slightly baffled by ur question.... but if u mean what is "making love" i'd say its more the closeness.... not that ur actually in love....

just that couples that are in love "make love" more often...

in my opinion...

i think.....

[nat_84]

lol - sorry i get it now....must be the chicken sandwich im eating - getting to my head a bit....

lmao at sherman by the way....

anyway - i find it difficult to always COME togther... he tends to always lead the way....

[kat_2502]

no no nat.84. I wanted to know what it means when a couple both come together, my mate reckons its when both are totally in love.

[Octavius]

A gentleman will always let a lady come first.

[nat_84]

i think the spelling COME threw me off track - now if u spelt C*M then i wouldve been more clued up.

[kat_2502]

I could do with one of them... a chicken sandwich. yummm

[Champagne]

Unfortunately it is true that most couple don't orgasm simultaneously. And it's also true that most women don't have orgasms through penetrative sex.

I think it's because men just can't compete with vibrators these days...

I think...

:o)

[nat_84]

Some gentlemans manners go out the window in certain situations...

[kat_2502]

Lucky for me the few ive met have been fantastic, always considered me first!

[PinkFizz]

Totally agree with Octavious - but if my partner has a little less self control occasionally and beats me to it then it doesn't matter in the slightest.

[Champagne]

So let me get this straight... if a couple were to meet in a bar one night for the first time, and ended up having a one night stand together and both had a simultaneous orgasm, would your friend say this meant they are in love?

[ummmm]

I don't think it has any thing to do with being in love. It depends what postion you are in.

[fms]

its all about very good timing i think and how you pleasure each other the bloke has to be very switched on to the girls resposes to certain stimulation and actions and slow down or speed up accordinly but its got nothing to do with the way they feel about each other a guy can make a girl *** whenever so long as he does the right thing and isnt selfish

[nat_84]

Its all about mind power and self control - on the mans behalf...

obviously its just a click of the fingers for us women...

[noxlumos]

It's easy enough to climax together but I don't think it means that you are in love, just holding off and watching your woman like a hawk and timing it right. It is great though when it happens.

[flipflop104]

My partner and I rarely c u m together and it's out of choice - the times when we have, have been marred by the fact that you're "concentrating" on keeping their pleasure going for as long as possible that you can't enjoy your own to the full (ie. relax and enjoy it). C u mming together is over-rated IMO

[PinkFizz]

lol Nox!
True though,great as it is it doesn't matter to me whether its together or not - its not a competition!!