Coming upto 14 and...........

[1carazy675]

I am nearly 14 and i have started getting urges and fancying girls more i dont know what to do and i dont want to talk to my mum about it. :-(

[-Zorro-]

Go up to them and say "How u doin"

[yassa]

Stay away,,,, anything with boobs or wheels is going to cost you money.

[1carazy675]

I'll bare these answers in mind thanks guys :-)

[1carazy675]

Any more suggestions people?

[oldwoman]

Have a nice cup of hot chocolate and go to bed. If you cant talk to your mam about it do you not know an older male person who you can discuss it with. I thought schools talked about these things now.

[RATTER15]

Just keep pulling your pud mate!!

[1carazy675]

They do talk about it sometimes but its just embarrasing :-(

[1carazy675]

Whats "Pulling your pud mate"?

[B00]

Ratter- if you answer, please bear in mind you're talking to a 14 year old!!!

carazy? Is there a particular girl you like? Or all of them? LOL What you're going through is natural and we've all been there (some of the so called grown men are still there- bless 'em!)

I know it's a frustrating time for you- all you can do really is abide your time till you meet a girl who you like and develop a friendship with and take it from there. However if you do have sex, please bear in mind that you ARE underage and more than likely the girl will be too. Please please please use protection!

[B00]

Ummm I didn't mean use protection because you're underage- I meant use protection for the obvious reasons!

[jus some gal]

Pullin' your pud = the five knuckle shuffle, jerkin' the gherkin, yankin' the plank, shaking hands with the bishop or spanking the monkey.

[B00]

For goodness sake this is a 14 year old lad, behave yourselves!!!

carazy- pulling your pud means masturbation.

[jus some gal]

Yeah it does, but I still think my suggestions were more playful, & creative not to blow my own horn lol

[shammydodger]

Hmmm

Interesting that you all assumed 1carazy675 is a male!

If it's any consolation, 1carazy675, you can wait till you're 18, go out on the razzle, get wasted and then, though the urge might not leave you, you won't be in a state to do owt about it. But then, you might be doing that already on the street corner, if we believe the news.

[B00]

Well he said he fancied girls 'more' which lead us to believe he was male.

[shammydodger]

Ward-Minter

I'm not, no, but then I'm not a girl.

Boo

So why would that not apply equally well if written by a girl?

[B00]

Oh I don't know shammy, stop confusing me- between this post and the one on Suggs about our departed Ed I think me head's gonna pop :-(

Let's just say I assumed he was male, I could be wrong, I usually am...........

shuffles off sulking

[CLOWN TICKLE]

There are people out there that you could talk to. If you are uncertain about chatting to your Mum what about a Grandparent, you could make an appointment to see a Gp confidentially or as a teacher I would hope you could speak to one of yours, male or female, it is natural and the urges that you feel have been pre programmed into your body, if you like its following a computer program and saying now we must think about the future, however as has been pointed out the law says it is illegal to have sex under 16 even with consent and that you might well be prosecuted.
I am not trying to be unkind hear and as WM said masturbation is a healthy solution