Carakeel, I am so, so sorry, you have my deepest condolences, I had no idea.
I agree with you about the NHS, it has been systematically dismantled also the situation within the Education system where teachers are no longer free to teach kids about being a decent rounded person but are more concerned with exam passes. Kids are branded successes and failures and 7 years old because of SATS tests and the state is taking too hard an interest in what local schools do, meaning that emphasis is not about being a kind, good or nice person who might do ok for themselves if they work hard, it's about sod your characteristics and everything else, just pass this exam so our school looks like a success. That has bred a generation of kids with very negative values who value material things and success above the higher things in life. A big mistake, that can only lead a lot of kids to dysfunction, disappointment and all of the frustration that goes with that. Frustrated people are agressive and selfish so it's a lousy basis for a society.