No Daave, I Don't think you are doing the wrong thing. However, she does need to explain to you how she can tell you she doesn't love you anymore, kick you out on the street as though you were just a piece of rubbish and then do a complete turnaround the very next day! Real love is not something you can just switch on and off whenever to suit your mood, as you clearly know yourself. It means commitment and being there for each other even when things are not so perfect. If you two are going to try again, then you need to make sure her feelings fro you as strong as yours for her, otherwise this will never work. It never does when one partner treats the other like an underdog qith no say or rights! She has to respect your feelings and your rights! That is so important! So mind how you go. You are wise to be ready if this goes wrong again. Hope things work out for you Daave. Big hug :o)