Thank crunchie its friday !!!

[spk]

Wahey folks we made it ! Its been a long tough week for a few on here so what are your happy soulful thoughts today and anything nice planned for the weekend?

[spk]

I have huge hang ups with exes too Nat its terrible. Its the intimacy thats the killer. I hate that someone else has been there it would be so nice if a new man could be fresh out of the wrapper and not have a past but hey thats life I guess. I moved here to be with my other ex actually- moved when I was 19. We split up after 7 years, then I disappeared travelling round the world for a year and got back just 2 months ago.
Yeh I hope fitty is into batman actually..

[admarlow]

I refuse to have the ex talk with Miss Admarlow, as Id rather not know!!!

[nat_84]

Wooo gosh - thats quite a commitment! U seen ur ex since u got back travelling? Lucky thing - i hope to go travelling for a year - maybe once ive quit this job. Fave place u went to?

My boyfriend is banned from talking about his ex - just thinking about it now makes my blood boil!

[spk]

Yup Admarlow very wise ! Im glad Im not the only one who gets freaked about exes ! Nat and Admarlow how long have you both been with your partners?

Yeh Ive seen my ex since I got back- I have visitation rights for our dogs so I see him a bit but its ok lol.

Favourite place I went was Laos, its between Thailand and Vietnam, I travelled all of Australia, South East Asia, Bali and Singapore. Had an amazing time I really recommend it. I sound like a tree hugger now but it really helps you "find yourself"- and spend a bloomin mint though

[nat_84]

lol spk - oh nice - i might have to check it out! I spent 3 months in Ghana last year - was bloody amazing - hoping to go back next year. Will have to remember Laos...
I want to travel South America and go to the Rio Festival too.

SO u and ur ex have no mutual feelings anymore? U sure fitty wont be jealous what with u visiting the dogs an all....?

Ive only been withmy boyfriend for about 13 months now... my longest ever relationship! Gosh dont know how im ever gonna get married at this rate...

[spk]

I would love to do south america actually its meant to be amazing. I worked in an orphanage in Cambodia as well, really rewarding but so sad. Ghana would have been well cool.
You and your boy seem to get on really well though Nat, and you have plenty of years in breeding in you yet dont panic !

Nah no feelings between my ex and I, very long volatile messy relationship, on and off and exhausting for 7 years. Glad to be out of it. Fitty has absolutely nothing to worry about I will make sure he knows that too x

[admarlow]

Ive been with her 2 years in Nov, although we went to uni togeather (but were not an item) and even worked on our dissatation together!) but I was living with a Swedish girl then, we got togeather the last time we would ever see each other (grad ball)..

anyways Im going travelling in Nov!!! (with Miss A) for a year my route is

London - Thailand - Laos - Vietnam - Cambodia - Malaysia - Singapore - Bali - Australia - New Zealand - Fuji - California - London... cant wait!

[spk]

Ah fab Admarlow !!! I sould be on MSN in december- I can give you names of great places to stay and tips along your route! My route was back to front to yours, Singapore- Bali- Australia- Thailand- Laos - Vietnam- Cambodia- Thailand and back to London. You will have a ball. I had to miss out NZ and Fiji- ran out of funds. Brilliant though it should be compulsory for everyone its so good for you

[nat_84]

Oh ur so lucky admarlow!! For some reason i assumed u were a lot older than u actually are... i think, how old r u?

spk - 7 years sounds like a life sentance!! NO me and my boyfriend have a huge amount of issues, when we're good we're really good but when we're bad we're really bad - if u know what i mean...he knows i come on this site to moan - so im restricted in expressing my feelings ;O)

[spk]

Know exactly what you mean Nat - I was like that with my ex boy. When it was good it was unbelieveble when it was bad it was hell on earth. My friends and family hated him though- didnt help. I would have been out alot quicker for good behaviour if Id done him in many moons ago lol x

[admarlow]

how old do u think I am girls?? I won't be offended ha ha ha

[spk]

I thought you were about my age, 27-28? Not old old though !

[admarlow]

and you nat??

[admarlow]

ooh ooh I have to go to a meeting if im not back have a GREAT weekend girls xxx

BYW Im 24 on Oct 16th ..

[nat_84]

Sorry was just actually given some work!!!

Shock shock horror!!!!

Anyway, i thought admarlow was about 34.... oh ur birthday soon!

spk - i thought u were about 26....

As im sure you wouldve worked out by now... im 21 - 22 on NOV 17th!

[spk]

work on a friday ??? How dare they !!! Do they think you are there to WORK? x

[nat_84]

I know Bloody morons!!!!

*pah*

Anyone, finished everything now - just hoping that the 4,30 nod will come ;o)

[spk]

Nat- pssst ! You still here? Fitty just asked me to stay over tomorrow night ! But I said no- too soon and "lady issues" just now. Oooh good progress though he like me ! :O)

[nat_84]

lol - yeah still here - was just give the 4.30 nod - and my boyfriends already waiting outside for me - bless him.

Thats well good news!!! He obviously likes u a lot. i used to say no but sometimes temptation gets the better of us girls!! And dont drink too much because then you definitely wont wanna leave!!!! U eating at his house?

[spk]

nah goin out for food. Ah who am I kiddin I will probably stay over...

Anyhoo have a lovely weekend Nat enjoy it give you update on monday ! :O) xx