I think you'll find I have never said I am self employed and if you can send me that post I'll eat my pants. And as for who made you class monitor, I asked a simple question, I mean who ever made you headmistress telling people how to spell all the time. You dont answer the question and think you have a right to discuss other people opinions, at least answer first then chat :-) I have always said you are a nice person but its the same old thing with you, you get paranoid all the time. To say you got a row??? On a answer forum??? Mmmmm. why are you getting so upset to post a question about it, I dont understand???