sex

[Ojustmarried]

I just got married, and i have not had sex before and when i did , i could only do it one day becuase it hurt to even try. Why? what could have gone wrong?

[babydust]

maybe because u were nervous everyone is like that first time in time it will get better

happy bonking!!

[janeo]

Just try to relax!

[noxlumos]

It's not an unocmmon phenomena for it to be painful for a woman the first time, or indeed the first few times she has sex.Make sure that your partner takes things slowy and steadily, plenty of foreplay before you even attempt penetrative sex. It's a new sensation for you ,sharing your body with a man, and you have to be ultra-relaxed and ready or you will tense up and it will be painful for you.If your partner is also inexperienced then he may be a bit over eager and rushing things, so just make sure he isn't too "bull at a gate" about it and all will eventually be well.

[Hellion]

Nox as always giving good advice, I would only add that when you are tense you can be a little 'dry' so use some KY Jelly ,you can buy it in any chemist and many supermarkets in the medical section. I would not always recommend this, but a glass of wine or two for both of you (I'm not suggesting you need to get drunk everytime you have sex!) to relax you may help.
You're not doing anything wrong honestly I can pretty much guarantee that everyone on AB will tell you their first time was not all it was cracked up to be. It gets better I promise!

[smurfchops]

Excuse me if I am being cynical but why do I think you are an old buddie of ours, under another assumed name ... ?

[RATTER15]

Smurf, I think you could be right!!

[PinkFizz]

Are you male or female ??

Who do you think this could be then guys??

[MrBen5]

How come you havent had sex before? What person in their right mind would marry someone without having sex first? What if that person is crap in bed?

[babydust]

well if he isa virgin 2 then it wont matter if they both suck in bed

lmao just realisedlol

[lostboy87]

could be a religious thing why he hadnt had sex before marriage.

[naz_nomad]

Did you marry someone of the opposite sex?

[smurfchops]

RATTER15, it was someone with a similar 'accent' but I can't remember their ID, they kept changing their ID and posting needless profane questions ... I told them to get a life at the time, perhaps they are now knitting or something. Or maybe they have turned up again ! ...