aaaarrrrrrrrggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh.....

[Silversky]

What is it about me... Am I too Nice? Too Difficult? Too what?

[wonderwoman1]

whats up babes? xx

[Silversky]

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion311961.html

''We've been good friends for a while, and we never stop talking to each other. And one day I just woke up and felt completely different about him.
But I'd known long before that, that he was completely obbsessed with someone else. We almost fell out because we argued about his constant talking about this other person...
Before I eventually admitted I liked him, we talked for a while before he admitted that "he didn't feel the same way"
I was completely crushed, but pushed it back because, if I knew we couldn't be together then I couldn't loose him as a friend. So here I am now, still completely crazy about him, and talking to him as if he's my best friend... and it's complete torture.''

[bobtheturkey]

i never have these problems with brenda

[lulu85]

For whatever reason the person says he doesnt want you. But the fact that you have this great relationship, makes me wonder if he does feel a certain way or not...

...Have you had a bf since you made this confession? Has he had a gf?

[Silversky]

No both of us have remained single since we discussed how we feel...

[filthiestfis]

I feel for you silversky :( why is it that the people we want to be with dont reciprocate back? I totally sympathise with you. *Hug*

[naz_nomad]

too heavy on the a, r, g & h keys, I'd say ... lol

[lulu85]

ok, well i think someone may be telling porky pies!!! I think if you got a boyf or man interest (made up or not - hey, us females need to know, dont we?!) you'd truly find out how he feels. For example, if he was all yeah whatever in a genuine way (I assume you know him well enough to know whether or not he's being genuine about something like that), then u know he was telling the truth, but if he's all 'u shouldnt go out with him' or negative in any way, you know he might be fibbing. Maybe,he doesnt realise himself and needs a kick up the bum, by way of possibly losing you to someone else! And, no, Im not saying you wouldnt be friends if you got a bloke, Im just saying that the thought might cross his mind and make him declare his undying love for you! Some stories do have happy endings you know! xxx