Should I contact or not? Part Two

[Daisybabe]

That was two years ago, he is apparently engaged to this girl, and I still have issues with the way it ended with us. I am going home in 2 weeks on a business trip - should I try contact him to clear the air before I go home? Don't want to bump into him and have an incident again - or hopefully, being engaged has cleared his head about all this. I miss him. He's so tied up in my growing up and the time around my fathers death.

What do you think?

[JOEYGREEN]

To be honest with you, I really wouldn't bother. He has made it quite clear that he doesn't want to see you again. Sorry it probably wasn't what you wanted to hear but that is only what I think.

[netibiza]

No, just let it go, move on.

[foxydivano1]

Hi Daisybabe,

sorry to hear about how your relationship with this man has turned out. To be honest, (and speaking from a similar experience) I would advise you not to get intouch with him, riase above it and try to put it behind you. Just think - everything happens for a reason! The way he treated you was not what you would expect a real friend to do.
If you do see him when you return home, dont make a big issue about it - infact I'd try to catch eye contact and then just walk away - it'll leave him thinking what he's missed out on! Good luck xxx

[spk]

I would leave well alone Im afraid, no point looking into the past leave it where it belongs. If you bump into him certainly be polite but I wouldnt go out of your way to make contact.

[CiderMonkey]

i understand that you will always have feelings for him because as you say, he was part of you growing up. But i think you should just leave it now. Two years is a long time and it will most certainly stir up trouble if you try contacting him.
if you do see him out, say a polite hello and move on.