I love the idea of a wedding, but i just think 'what if it all ends in disaster'!!! I dont want to go through the heartache and pain of a divorce! And the stupid flippin 'statistics' are stacked against everyone nowadays, its not fair! I want a pretty white wedding with a handsome young man!!!!
I can honestly say I dont care where it is or whether its a posh expensive do or a simple cheap do, as long as the people I care about and the people that care about me are there, that is all that matters.
When my mum got married, I was 11 and my dad (not my real dad, but he was around from when I was around 18months old &stuck around although my mum was only 18 and he only 19) and mum were climbers, they got married at the registry office in the morning and just took the required witnessess with them, and in the afternoon, we went up to Mallham Crag, which was enclosed with a waterfall (yorkshire dales) with a family friend as the 'vicar' and we had a portable cd player for the brides entrance music and all their friends and family were there and after the vicar-y bit I say 'can you feel the love tonight' (from the lion king), then we went to a hotel and had the sit down meal and a reception later with a live band. They were pretty skint when they both got married, both having just finished their degrees and they said to guests rather than buying them present's they would prefer that the guests contribute a small amount, �5 or �10 towards the sit down meal. It was the most heartfelt wedding I have ever been to. And that is what I think is a perfect day...