sexy dreams about ex

[scooby05]

i spilt from my ex 3 years ago, never really got over him i surpose! but just lately iv been thinking about him alot (again) and i keep having really naughty dreams about him, they seem so real and are really vivid. im 7 months pregnant and been with my bf for 2 years. do you think its just my hormones?????

[redcrx]

yep its hormones, you get the most amazing mucky dreams when pregnant, its all great fun!

[crete]

how can you be over him if you still dream about him im sorry but hormones have nothing to do with it why dont you dream about your current pasrtner ?

[whiskeysheri]

That's ridiculous, crete! You don't pick what you dream about.

I've dreamt about people I wouldn't look twice at usually (and then I'll have the daytime shudders after when I think about the dream!).

[crete]

all read the question. never got over him I SUPPOSE.

[whiskeysheri]

...and we're saying that to dream about someone doesn't necessarily mean you're not over them, because we can dream about anyone IN THOSE 'ways'!

[redcrx]

crete, pregnancy does make you dream the strangest of dreams which bear no relation to life in general and a large percentage of them are of a sexual nature.
A woman on my pregnancy board was having dreams of some celebrity, i cant recall who but she and everyone else agreed he was an ugly specimen.

scooby05, put it down to your hormonal state until after the birth of your baby and then take re-assess

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, i understand what crete means. She does state ,'i suppose' which means she hasnt really got over him. i fantasise about my ex's. Sometimes when i am with another girl, but it doesnt mean that i want to go back with them. They might have been fit, but they are an ex for a reason. i think you are fantasising about your ex scooby05 cos sex was good with him, and you never really met anyone else who matched up to him...

[noxlumos]

Well there's no harm in them in any event. It's normal for pregnant women's sexdrive both conscious and subconscious to increase so I wouldn't worry, and if you have never got over him, but are clearly getting on with your life and enjoying a new serious relationship and impending motherhood, well then good for you. Too many people languish in pits of "what if" and "if only" and forget to live after they split up with somone important. You aren't doing that so good on you.

[stoodley]

i reckon u still fancy him

[crete]

i agree ,,,hormones dont think so

[loobie]

Hey Scooby,

Just wanted to say thanks for this post. Because of it I had a very rude dream about an ex of mine that I've just got back in contact with and it was very nice indeed!!

thanks again xx

[scooby05]

hi everyone
like i said i dont think i am over him completly. dont think i ever will be. he was my first proper boyfriend, we first got together when we was at school, together 3 yrs split for 2 then got back for 6 mths, that was 3 yrs ago now. we almost started it back up again last yr.
but iv already got a 17mth with my current partner and i know that i could never break up our family. so we decided to both get on with our new lives.
im getting on with it, i due to have another baby end of jan.

you dont choose what you dream about, so i will put it down to hormones at least until after if they havent stopped.

dont know if iv explained myself propley.
thanks everyone xx