Unfortunately I live in a city... inbetween the likes of Bognor Regis and Selsey, so the beachs aren't very nice to just relax and think. But Goodwood has a lovely lookout point where you can drive to and look over the city which is beautiful, otherwise, there's a place called portsdown hill, which overlooks Portsmouth, this is also a beautiful view.
When my gran died, I used to sit in her garden, because the fountain was left on and it made me feel happy because it was as if she was just inside.. then the house was sold so I can no longer do that :( x