"chemistry"

[liquidspace]

Have any of you met someone of the opposite sex and been SO drawn to them and you dont particularly know why. If you happen to stand next to them you feel something between you, or you talk to them and you cannot take your eyes off theirs.

My feeling is so strong that I think surely the other person must automatically be feeling the same thing. When you feel this "chemistry" - do you think the other person cannot fail to feel it too?

[ummmm]

I think they must. I had this with someone and it's gone on for the last 13 years!!!

[4getmenot]

Yes there a couple of people that I seem to bump into I dont speak to them or know their name and they dont know mine but theres that little smile that kinda makes you think. Unfortunately I bumped into him as I was coming out of Roys the other day, how embarrasing

[crete]

a very romantic scenario,but how many times does it result in a long lasting relationship,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,apart from the above posters.

[ummmm]

I'm not in a relationship with him

[redcrx]

4get, people may think Roy is a chap you know :)

[crete]

i assumed she meant roys cafe in coronation street

[4getmenot]

No its a really cheap store. like QD :-) and I'm not in a relationship, I dont think liquidspace is talking about that though, just someone that you feel you have this special thing with.

[boro1986]

Ummm i didnt know you could feel that way over e mails

[4getmenot]

Would be funny if its was Roys rolls, yep I strolled out of roys and saw Shaun, I feel this bond, do you reckon he feels the same :-)

[China Doll]

Erm, no... Don't get me wrong I've really liked/fancied people and found them attractive but it's usually been because I've gotten to know them as well. And I can generally tear myself away. I don't think I'd like that feeling.

If I was faced with this situation I think I would have to remember that they also use the loo and probably sing in the shower. Badly.

And I'm not sure whether the other person would feel it or not. It must depend on how good you are at hiding it I suppose. But if you eyes are permenantly glued to theirs then I guess they'd notice something was up.

[ummmm]

It's cyber chemistry with you boro. I can't take my eyes off your words!!!

[boro1986]

You do make me laugh xx

[Hellion]

When I met Mr Hellion he was in a relationship and so was I but i felt an inevitability in meeting him (but not actually in a sexual way). He says he always knew he would end up with me, and almost went the opposite way as he hated the fact that he felt he'd met his 'soul mate' at the age of 18 he deliberately went out with other girls to prove the feeling wrong. I also went out with other people but it got the better of us in the end ( and I can assure you no two people ever tried so hard NOT to get togther lol)and we've now known each other about 28 years, been togther 20 ish and married for 14.

[liquidspace]

Ummm and boro - why dont you two just get the hell on with it! Its damn obvious you two fancy the pants off each other. BUT what Im talking about is with someone you have met, someone you know.

I was just interested to know if you feel something so strong, whether the other person does too. Isnt it a shame if two people both feel something but never do anything about it.

[4getmenot]

But I think as crete said it wouldnt work and thats whats so mysterious about it all.

[4getmenot]

Well lots of people fancy someone they met and someone they know. I though you meant passing strangers.

[boro1986]

I have once about 3 years ago and we did get off with each other (how could she resist!!!!) but she turned out to be a right bunny boiler which was a shame cause she was stunning

[liquidspace]

hellion - great story, isnt it heartwarming when two people feel that attraction for each other and finally get together, i cant think of anything more heart flutteringly exciting. sigh.